How to recognize a man’s inability to start a serious relationship

Many of us are familiar with the situation when you become attached to a man who is simply unable to create a healthy relationship. At first everything is fine, and then there are troubles, quarrels, and in the end he breaks your heart. This happens quite often, and the reason is the emotional instability of a man.



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Emotional instability is not a sentence, but not for those who are looking for a serious relationship. Such men can not be called bad, just their relationship with themselves and internal state are experiencing not the best times. If you think that you can cope with this and can build a family with such a person, go ahead.



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It will take a lot of time and effort, and in return you can get a broken heart. Not ready for this? When starting a new relationship, pay attention to these 5 signs.

Signs of emotional instability

1. He had a lot of bad relationships.
   Analyze a man's past relationships. This is not always the most accurate indicator, but it can tell a lot about a person. If a man before you has had many long failed relationships in which he was bad, there is a good chance that he does not value himself. Considering himself unworthy, a man will want to get confirmation of his worth from you. But it is simply impossible to fill this void, even if you lay down your life for this purpose. Such a relationship will eventually turn into a banal feeding of his ego. And trust me, you won't get anything in return.
   
   
   
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2. He's always complaining about his health.
   This is not about serious diagnoses or minor ailments. From time to time this is common to anyone. We are talking about cases when a man constantly complains about the decline of strength and suspects various diseases. Especially beware if he still does not want to seek help from a doctor. The habit of suffering too much due to a physiological state can also indicate low self-esteem. All his attention and strength will go to suffering and attempts to obtain consolation and pity. Yes, such a person really should spend more time on himself and deal with his cockroaches. The other question is, are you willing to wait until he decides to do it?
   
   
   
   
   
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3. He has an addiction.
   Any addiction, whether it is overeating or substance abuse, is an alarming symptom. With the help of alcohol, drugs or drugs, a person tries to change their mood and create a different personality. This is hardly a sign of a stable person. For such a person, you will never be in the first place, because he is comfortable after eating something. Why would he need someone else? A relationship with such a man can be very painful and bring a lot of disappointment.
   
   
   
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4. He sees life in black.
   Pessimism is not the best approach to life. If a person looks at everything through the prism of failure, then where is the certainty that they also do not relate to your relationship? Such people are not ready for a serious relationship, they are pre-programmed to fail. This does not mean that a person is doomed to loneliness, he only needs to deal with his life and change something in himself. Influence from outside will not help, personal initiative is important.
   
   
   
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5. He has no confidence in himself.
   Lack of self-confidence and insecurity are signs of childhood trauma. As a child, such a person learned that in order to survive, you need to give up your needs. Growing up, he tries to help and please absolutely everyone, suffering at the same time. It may be nice to feel that trust at first, but it is short-lived and not real. This is not the kind of trust that comes after years of intimacy, it comes only from the fact that a man is insecure. How is self-doubt related to betrayal and disappointment? Very simply, the moral guidelines of such a man have not yet been formed, he is susceptible to outside influence. He will hurt you as easily as he began to trust you.
   
   
   
   
   
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All these are signs of an emotionally unstable man who is not ready for a serious relationship at the moment. No, this does not mean that this person is doomed, just that he first needs to understand himself. People in such an unstable state are unable to pay attention to others and take care of anyone but themselves.

Before starting a relationship with an emotionally unstable man, think twice. We often overestimate ourselves, pretending to be superheroes, who will save anyone from problems, but in most cases it ends only in painful disappointment. Good luck finding your soul mate!

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