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Can you fall in love after your 50th birthday?
Is it possible to fall in love after 50? Everyone wants to be happy in their personal life. But there is a stereotype that the older you are, the harder it is to find happiness.
It is natural to get married at a young age. There are many motives: to be near a loved one, to give birth to children, to build a common life.
Creating a family at a fairly mature age has completely different motives: to get rid of loneliness, to be near a person who thinks in the same direction and is a kindred spirit, to find support in the person of another.
What can become a barrier to personal happiness, is prejudice. Our moms and grandparents didn't think about love at 50+. They believed, for the most part, that at this age it is supposed to knit socks, walk with grandchildren, stand by the stove, pick up in the garden or sit on a bench near the house, and that’s all. The current 50-year-olds were born in Soviet times, but are no longer satisfied with such a fate.
DepositPhotos Personal Happiness Stereotypes and Stamps That Prevent Personal Happiness
The romantic myth of two halves who are always looking for each other and do not find each other, let it remain a myth and does not serve as an excuse for loneliness. To find your soul mate, you need to search, get acquainted, not wait.
Life throws gifts, but only to those who are ready for them. Stories about women who in adulthood found love and partners for life due to the fact that they got rid of fears and prejudices, many. Let yours be one of them.
Read more about how to get along with a man in our previous articles. Follow the links.
It is natural to get married at a young age. There are many motives: to be near a loved one, to give birth to children, to build a common life.
Creating a family at a fairly mature age has completely different motives: to get rid of loneliness, to be near a person who thinks in the same direction and is a kindred spirit, to find support in the person of another.
What can become a barrier to personal happiness, is prejudice. Our moms and grandparents didn't think about love at 50+. They believed, for the most part, that at this age it is supposed to knit socks, walk with grandchildren, stand by the stove, pick up in the garden or sit on a bench near the house, and that’s all. The current 50-year-olds were born in Soviet times, but are no longer satisfied with such a fate.
DepositPhotos Personal Happiness Stereotypes and Stamps That Prevent Personal Happiness
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The romantic myth of two halves who are always looking for each other and do not find each other, let it remain a myth and does not serve as an excuse for loneliness. To find your soul mate, you need to search, get acquainted, not wait.
Life throws gifts, but only to those who are ready for them. Stories about women who in adulthood found love and partners for life due to the fact that they got rid of fears and prejudices, many. Let yours be one of them.
Read more about how to get along with a man in our previous articles. Follow the links.
