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Does a woman’s turbulent past matter?
Each of us tries to make a good first impression on others, and especially on the object of desire. No one will reveal their bad side or shameful actions from the past in the first couple of conversations. Often it is women who try to hide their past relationships from their new lover in order to seem better. Why go back to the past? But over time, everything secret becomes clear.
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It is one thing when inefficiencies surface after a few months of communication. But it happens that the past of the wife is found out after several years of living together. pride He doesn't let you get over her. What to do in such cases and whether the dark past can destroy the happy present, will tell the editors "Site".
Men by nature are very powerful and jealous. This is why they prefer younger women. But it happens that a woman a little embellished her past, as in the song: "Who is not first, we have second." A typical situation: a man sat at a meeting with friends and learned some details of his wife’s life from other people. And the problem is, how do we reconcile?
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Constant questioning, scandals and resentment can easily destroy a marriage. In psychoanalysis, jealousy in adulthood is understood as a reflection of the child's feelings for the mother. Sometimes, the baby notices that he can not get feedback from his mother, a response feeling. And not because she's a bad mother: even the most caring parents leave their children for a while to communicate with each other. The child may conclude that true love must be absolute.
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They often prefer to keep their wives away from other men. They may not allow them to buy open dresses and do catchy makeup. Even on the street or away, they will watch that the beloved is not distracted for a long time by communicating with someone else. There will also be phone and social media reviews from time to time for no reason.
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Such behavior can also be caused by self-doubt. The man begins to compare himself with the past gentleman, finding his pluses, analyzes what his wife could like in him, and tries to find it in himself. And, of course, pride takes its toll, and everything that has not been said before is perceived as a deception.
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In any case, you need a calm dialogue between husband and wife. In no case should a woman try on the role of a victim, otherwise the whole further marriage life will turn into service. You need to discuss the problem and find out what is bothering your beloved man. It’s also worth pointing out why you shouldn’t worry about this. Any dispute and controversy will only make matters worse.
It is best to be open with each other and at the beginning of the relationship to discuss each other’s attitude to certain things. There are many tips for a strong marriage, but only you and your spouse can find the perfect formula for living together. And a man should think that he really cares: whether he was really offended by his wife’s past or just it complexes or male pride do not allow a normal life.
We also talked about 15 important questions to ask each other at the beginning of a relationship.
Tell us in the comments if your husband was jealous of your past life. Share this article with your friends on social media!
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It is one thing when inefficiencies surface after a few months of communication. But it happens that the past of the wife is found out after several years of living together. pride He doesn't let you get over her. What to do in such cases and whether the dark past can destroy the happy present, will tell the editors "Site".
Men by nature are very powerful and jealous. This is why they prefer younger women. But it happens that a woman a little embellished her past, as in the song: "Who is not first, we have second." A typical situation: a man sat at a meeting with friends and learned some details of his wife’s life from other people. And the problem is, how do we reconcile?
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Constant questioning, scandals and resentment can easily destroy a marriage. In psychoanalysis, jealousy in adulthood is understood as a reflection of the child's feelings for the mother. Sometimes, the baby notices that he can not get feedback from his mother, a response feeling. And not because she's a bad mother: even the most caring parents leave their children for a while to communicate with each other. The child may conclude that true love must be absolute.
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They often prefer to keep their wives away from other men. They may not allow them to buy open dresses and do catchy makeup. Even on the street or away, they will watch that the beloved is not distracted for a long time by communicating with someone else. There will also be phone and social media reviews from time to time for no reason.
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Such behavior can also be caused by self-doubt. The man begins to compare himself with the past gentleman, finding his pluses, analyzes what his wife could like in him, and tries to find it in himself. And, of course, pride takes its toll, and everything that has not been said before is perceived as a deception.
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In any case, you need a calm dialogue between husband and wife. In no case should a woman try on the role of a victim, otherwise the whole further marriage life will turn into service. You need to discuss the problem and find out what is bothering your beloved man. It’s also worth pointing out why you shouldn’t worry about this. Any dispute and controversy will only make matters worse.
It is best to be open with each other and at the beginning of the relationship to discuss each other’s attitude to certain things. There are many tips for a strong marriage, but only you and your spouse can find the perfect formula for living together. And a man should think that he really cares: whether he was really offended by his wife’s past or just it complexes or male pride do not allow a normal life.
We also talked about 15 important questions to ask each other at the beginning of a relationship.
Tell us in the comments if your husband was jealous of your past life. Share this article with your friends on social media!
Photo by depositphotos preview.
