25
How to learn to trust your loved ones
Having stumbled upon the story of twenty-eight-year-old Eugenie, we decided that it was worth sharing some tips that could help women in this situation.
“I learned that my husband had deceived me. He admitted that he spent several months with one of his colleagues, with whom they had developed a mutual sympathy.
When we talked, the husband promised that he would not have any more contact with that girl. The problem is that this promise is not enough for me. Because they work together, they continue to see and communicate every day.
We decided that we wanted to keep our relationship together, so I insist that he quit because his continued relationship with that girl is a serious threat to our marriage. The husband is not satisfied with this condition, because he likes the job very much.
I don’t even know if I should keep pushing my... On the one hand, his dismissal will bring me peace of mind, but on the other hand, in this case, his interests will not be taken into account.
Building a harmonious relationship with a man who once betrayed your trust is extremely difficult. But if you're still willing to try and fix it, the editorial board. "Site" He'll tell you how to do it.
Trust in relationships Cheating on a colleague It indicates that there were already some problems in the relationship between the spouses. Since the husband refuses to change his job and in fact makes a promise that he does not intend to keep, mistrust is added to the problems that already existed.
If there is a disagreement in a relationship and two people decide to fix them, then both should make efforts to this, and equally. However, when it comes to cheating, things get a little complicated. Regardless of the reason for the infidelity, the partner who committed the act is obliged to admit their guilt and take responsibility for what happened.
In such a situation, it is the one who has betrayed the trust of his partner who should make more efforts to fix everything. If a husband who has shown infidelity to his wife considers his act a mistake and wants to regain the trust of his beloved woman, he must try and do everything in his power to do this.
The injured party should not be tormented by the question: “How can you regain peace of mind?” The husband is the only one to blame for what he has changed, because he must know what he can do to ensure a safe feeling in their relationship and to do everything that is required of him if he wants to save the marriage.
The wife’s task in such a situation is to survive the resentment, pain and anger she feels towards her husband, and eventually forgive him so that the two of them can move on. The task of the husband is to be near and help his wife to experience those negative feelings that fell on her, with all his actions proving her love and remorse for what happened.
No matter how much a woman cherishes a man, she should not hold on to someone who neglects her in return. Once in this situation, it is worth thinking about what you could do in the place of your spouse to save your relationship. You need to imagine that you have switched places, and try to understand how he would feel and what his reaction would be in your place. This will help to get rid of the feeling that you do not consider his interests, and will give you a better understanding of what is happening between you in general.
Perhaps you are the only one who has the desire to improve the relationship and save the marriage, and your husband is just comfortable leaving everything as it is?
Everything happens in life, and everything has its reasons. Some actions need to be treated with understanding in order to preserve something very valuable. But sometimes it is necessary to recognize that certain actions of a loved one can not be taken for granted and forgive him all the mistakes, if later this person does not even try to correct them.
And under what conditions could you forgive? husbandly?
“I learned that my husband had deceived me. He admitted that he spent several months with one of his colleagues, with whom they had developed a mutual sympathy.
When we talked, the husband promised that he would not have any more contact with that girl. The problem is that this promise is not enough for me. Because they work together, they continue to see and communicate every day.
We decided that we wanted to keep our relationship together, so I insist that he quit because his continued relationship with that girl is a serious threat to our marriage. The husband is not satisfied with this condition, because he likes the job very much.
I don’t even know if I should keep pushing my... On the one hand, his dismissal will bring me peace of mind, but on the other hand, in this case, his interests will not be taken into account.
Building a harmonious relationship with a man who once betrayed your trust is extremely difficult. But if you're still willing to try and fix it, the editorial board. "Site" He'll tell you how to do it.
Trust in relationships Cheating on a colleague It indicates that there were already some problems in the relationship between the spouses. Since the husband refuses to change his job and in fact makes a promise that he does not intend to keep, mistrust is added to the problems that already existed.
If there is a disagreement in a relationship and two people decide to fix them, then both should make efforts to this, and equally. However, when it comes to cheating, things get a little complicated. Regardless of the reason for the infidelity, the partner who committed the act is obliged to admit their guilt and take responsibility for what happened.
In such a situation, it is the one who has betrayed the trust of his partner who should make more efforts to fix everything. If a husband who has shown infidelity to his wife considers his act a mistake and wants to regain the trust of his beloved woman, he must try and do everything in his power to do this.
The injured party should not be tormented by the question: “How can you regain peace of mind?” The husband is the only one to blame for what he has changed, because he must know what he can do to ensure a safe feeling in their relationship and to do everything that is required of him if he wants to save the marriage.
The wife’s task in such a situation is to survive the resentment, pain and anger she feels towards her husband, and eventually forgive him so that the two of them can move on. The task of the husband is to be near and help his wife to experience those negative feelings that fell on her, with all his actions proving her love and remorse for what happened.
No matter how much a woman cherishes a man, she should not hold on to someone who neglects her in return. Once in this situation, it is worth thinking about what you could do in the place of your spouse to save your relationship. You need to imagine that you have switched places, and try to understand how he would feel and what his reaction would be in your place. This will help to get rid of the feeling that you do not consider his interests, and will give you a better understanding of what is happening between you in general.
Perhaps you are the only one who has the desire to improve the relationship and save the marriage, and your husband is just comfortable leaving everything as it is?
Everything happens in life, and everything has its reasons. Some actions need to be treated with understanding in order to preserve something very valuable. But sometimes it is necessary to recognize that certain actions of a loved one can not be taken for granted and forgive him all the mistakes, if later this person does not even try to correct them.
And under what conditions could you forgive? husbandly?