Why a woman on demolition should not visit the places of mourning angels

Family relationships can both bring joy and deeply hurt morally. Especially. bitterness It comes the moment you realize you're being criticized for nothing. And not ordinary people that you don’t really care about. They are relatives you have known for a long time.



In addition, against the background of a global pandemic, some people are so emotionally burned out that you do not even know what to expect from them. The situation is complicated and no one knows when it will end. But people suffer from it in every sense. Hopefully things will fall into place soon. Patience and strength to all of us.

In recent years, Anastasia, as they say, learned to collect stones. She and her husband began to bring a good passive income, they bought a great car, made repairs in the house, and their son was sent to a private school. Life seemed to be a success. You can relax and relax: how much can you work and constantly think about money?



But trouble came from where we didn't expect it. After a single incident, the mother-in-law turned away from Nastya and ceased to maintain any contact with her. But this is the mother of a beloved husband, how can you hush up such a situation?

And here's the thing.

Nastya, or rather Anastasia Evgenyevna, was again in the position. It was a good time for the second child. There are funds, there is time to prepare for all standard procedures: enrolling in kindergarten, buying the right things and, most importantly, absolute support from her husband.



Even with the horrific pandemic environment around the world, her family felt confident and looked forward to tomorrow. Notified all relatives, even made small gatherings with friends, where the guests gave all sorts of trifles for the child: clothes, rattles, toys and everything like that.

But a month later, several employees fell ill in the office. Then more. It was decided to put everyone in quarantine mode and, if possible, let people work from home. Naturally, the authorities also followed this decision, and Anastasia’s husband, Pavel, stayed with the family. In principle, no financial problems followed, and the family sighed with relief.

A few days later, the sad news came. The father of Nastya’s husband, her father-in-law, died due to a long illness. Lung problems, severe cough and advanced age have done their job. A terrible news that hit the whole family and relatives. There was nothing to do, I had to go to the funeral.



Paul immediately warned his wife that he preferred not to go to the cemetery, and even in position. First of all, this is not the place for a woman to demolish. Second, maybe some of you will be sick. Her body is weakened and her immunity is at zero. In short, it's nothing.

No sooner had her husband returned from the funeral than Anastasia’s phone rang. There was a mother-in-law on the other side of the wire. The woman through tears and sobs cursed her daughter-in-law on what the light is. That she is ungrateful, that she is treacherous. Unconscionable, walking and so on. That she is not related to them and they do not want to see her anymore. The monologue lasted about an hour. Nastya didn't even give the floor.



When Paul came home, he saw his pregnant wife crying. He was angry because he knew exactly what the problem was. Mother scolded her son and daughter-in-law all the funerals, it was not difficult to guess where her legs grew from. It's hot. I called my mother and told her everything I thought about it. I swear and yell.

Now the family is in a big fight. Some relatives support the mother of Paul, but most still on the side of the spouses Pasha and Nastya. Paul does not communicate with his mother, let alone his wife. A grandson will be born soon. This is how the normal, normal life of many people was destroyed.



What to do now, what to do: go to the world? But the mother-in-law is very principled, and it is so easy to reconcile with her. Keep ignoring me? But soon a grandson will be born, how will he be without his grandmother? The question is tough, but no one knows how to solve it. It was just recently that everything was so great!