The gentleman did not consult me because of the apartment, showed his true face.

Should I listen to my husband’s advice on how to manage my inheritance? Or does each spouse have the right to dispose of their property independently and not report on their decisions? It is this burning issue that we propose to discuss today!

My husband and I lived together for 18 years, including 3 years in a civil marriage. Over the years, we have always had a family budget. No matter how much money was earned, all the money was stored in a common account and at any time each of us could use it.



We recently inherited my aunt’s apartment. For the last 2 years of her life, we were constantly looking after her and were almost the only people who could turn to for help at any time. However, we did it completely unselfishly. She was a nice woman, so it was not a burden for me or Valera to communicate with her.

No one knew that Klavdia Fedorovna had reissued her will for her nephew. For the rest of the family, the news was shocking. But today is not about...



For several months, Aunt Clava's apartment stood idle. I told my husband several times that I should start giving it to someone. I recommended reliable sites and told you how to organize everything. And he just agreed and further delayed the moment of submitting ads to the site. So in the end, I decided to do it myself.



Two sites successfully placed my ad, and the third refused, saying that the apartment with such an address they have long been registered. So I found out that Valera is silent about renting out an apartment and hiding money received from tenants.



When I asked my husband why he didn’t tell me, he said it was none of my business. Like, the apartment is decorated for him, so he has the right to independently decide how to dispose of it.



I don't really need that money. But my husband’s attitude to this issue really hurt me. Where did this change come from? What else is he hiding from me? Maybe he has another woman and is preparing to leave for her, so he saves money in a separate account?

He tells me to stop screwing myself up, but he won't admit why he has a personal bank account. How do I get answers from him?



Agree, quite a difficult story. Do you think our heroine should be so worried or should she listen to her husband and let go? I don’t know what I would have done in her place. And you?