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The grief of the mother that lets his son stuff cones with his daughter-in-law
Every mother wants the best for her children. Life, work, soul mate. Unfortunately, the children themselves sometimes step on the same rake. Here's our situation, for example: divorcee He did not make any conclusions and made the same mistake. What about that?
And life goes on, and the attitude towards the native person gradually changes. Parents feel frustrated, and children just distance themselves from them. On the other hand, who is to blame for this, because everyone has their own life.
It so happened that in my old age my son stopped talking to me. And he's the eldest son. The youngest, thank God, is fine. Helps me, doesn't forget. But here's the senior. He found the wrong partner in life, believe me, the wrong one.
After the army, Oleg immediately met his future wife, Oley. Our town is small, so everyone knows a lot about it. I personally did not know Olya, so at the meeting treated her with all my heart. I laid the table, cleaned the house, generally tried to leave only a positive impression. And this girl came with gum and an arrogant look. It was obvious that she just didn’t care about everything that was happening.
I will not say that our family is rich, so this Olga started dating with my Oleg for money. My friends have told me that she has a bad reputation. And that she had a huge number of men, and that her parents had long given up on her, and other things. Believe it or not, it's personal, but I've seen it with my own eyes. I was not surprised by this “glory” behind her.
In a month, I will find out that they have already applied to the registry office and are just waiting for the wedding. Youth is like that. By the way, her side paid for this whole holiday of life. It turned out that her parents are normal people, but with the character of his daughter can not do anything. All I had to do was nod my head sympathetically.
So, family life. On the one hand, I was happy for my son. Maybe he will. It's not like that. But on the other hand, you know, I'm a mom. They seemed to have enough money, but with life everything was much worse. The daughter-in-law fundamentally did not clean, cooked something like scrambled eggs or even ordered food at home. For this reason, there were quarrels, my son came to me to cool down. He will sit, calm down, and again to his wife. Love, apparently.
But life is not a fairy tale. This could not last long and they divorced. It hasn't been six months. I saw the pain in Oleg’s eyes, but I couldn’t help it. Then he began to withdraw, to close himself, and I directly felt the thinning of the thread that binds us as mother and son.
That's when I decided to help. I had a friend with an adult daughter. The girl is smart, good. So I introduced her to Oleg. Oddly enough, it helped him. They started walking together, chatting. It turned out that they looked at many things from the same angle. Although my son did not see me more often, I was very happy for him.
In general, it was already going to be engaged, but Olga loomed on the horizon. Like snow on your head. Called, came, persuaded to meet. The boy gave up. Thought
A few days later, he told the girl they were practically living with that they weren't a good match. I already imagined babysitting my grandchildren.
A couple of weeks later, they filed a painting application again. Same rake again. Yes, Olya said that she has changed, that she will become a better wife and understands all her past mistakes. But I don't believe her. But recently my son called and on the phone “pleased” me. Said he knew how I felt about his choice and so he didn't want me to be sad at the wedding again. So he's against me coming to the party.
On the one hand, I wouldn't go. On the other hand, I can already see how it will end. So my son changed me. And who? A woman who broke his heart once before. Who disappointed her own parents with her behavior. I think it's terrible. You can't say that, but I think I have only one son left. Both are alive.
Sadly, things like this happen too. Perhaps Oleg needs time, and he realizes everything. On the other hand, it is because of time that a man can finally distance himself from his mother. But what will he choose?
And life goes on, and the attitude towards the native person gradually changes. Parents feel frustrated, and children just distance themselves from them. On the other hand, who is to blame for this, because everyone has their own life.
It so happened that in my old age my son stopped talking to me. And he's the eldest son. The youngest, thank God, is fine. Helps me, doesn't forget. But here's the senior. He found the wrong partner in life, believe me, the wrong one.
After the army, Oleg immediately met his future wife, Oley. Our town is small, so everyone knows a lot about it. I personally did not know Olya, so at the meeting treated her with all my heart. I laid the table, cleaned the house, generally tried to leave only a positive impression. And this girl came with gum and an arrogant look. It was obvious that she just didn’t care about everything that was happening.
I will not say that our family is rich, so this Olga started dating with my Oleg for money. My friends have told me that she has a bad reputation. And that she had a huge number of men, and that her parents had long given up on her, and other things. Believe it or not, it's personal, but I've seen it with my own eyes. I was not surprised by this “glory” behind her.
In a month, I will find out that they have already applied to the registry office and are just waiting for the wedding. Youth is like that. By the way, her side paid for this whole holiday of life. It turned out that her parents are normal people, but with the character of his daughter can not do anything. All I had to do was nod my head sympathetically.
So, family life. On the one hand, I was happy for my son. Maybe he will. It's not like that. But on the other hand, you know, I'm a mom. They seemed to have enough money, but with life everything was much worse. The daughter-in-law fundamentally did not clean, cooked something like scrambled eggs or even ordered food at home. For this reason, there were quarrels, my son came to me to cool down. He will sit, calm down, and again to his wife. Love, apparently.
But life is not a fairy tale. This could not last long and they divorced. It hasn't been six months. I saw the pain in Oleg’s eyes, but I couldn’t help it. Then he began to withdraw, to close himself, and I directly felt the thinning of the thread that binds us as mother and son.
That's when I decided to help. I had a friend with an adult daughter. The girl is smart, good. So I introduced her to Oleg. Oddly enough, it helped him. They started walking together, chatting. It turned out that they looked at many things from the same angle. Although my son did not see me more often, I was very happy for him.
In general, it was already going to be engaged, but Olga loomed on the horizon. Like snow on your head. Called, came, persuaded to meet. The boy gave up. Thought
A few days later, he told the girl they were practically living with that they weren't a good match. I already imagined babysitting my grandchildren.
A couple of weeks later, they filed a painting application again. Same rake again. Yes, Olya said that she has changed, that she will become a better wife and understands all her past mistakes. But I don't believe her. But recently my son called and on the phone “pleased” me. Said he knew how I felt about his choice and so he didn't want me to be sad at the wedding again. So he's against me coming to the party.
On the one hand, I wouldn't go. On the other hand, I can already see how it will end. So my son changed me. And who? A woman who broke his heart once before. Who disappointed her own parents with her behavior. I think it's terrible. You can't say that, but I think I have only one son left. Both are alive.
Sadly, things like this happen too. Perhaps Oleg needs time, and he realizes everything. On the other hand, it is because of time that a man can finally distance himself from his mother. But what will he choose?
When the children climb up and try to take a picture of me, I shout a simple truth at the top of my voice.
My kids were the smartest in the class because I wasn’t too lazy to do them.