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Relatives always like thunder in the clear sky, ruined my weekend
An unexpected guestKnocking on doors in the morning is clearly not what you expect on a weekend. Especially if it turns out that your distant relative, whom you barely know, is on the doorstep. What can lead to an unpleasant surprise and how to find a way out of the stalemate, read in our history today.
I had an unexpected guest that day. I was going to get some sleep, start my day slowly and spend it with a girl. But the plans collapsed when suddenly the doorbell rang. On the doorstep stood three people: a man and a woman about 45 years old and a young guy. I saw them for the first time, to be honest.
“Well, hello, Kolenka! It's so good to see you! You're a grown-up, of course. Pasha, bring things, what is on the threshold to stand? - the woman smiled joyfully, glanced at me and transferred him to her, apparently, son. I was just in shock...
“Who are you and what do you want? What does it mean to bring things in? I did not invite you into the house! – I protested. The uninvited guest changed his face, smoohed: Kolya, do you not remember us? We are distant relatives: I am your father’s cousin, this is my husband, and this is our son Pasha.
I moved from the village when I was 20 years old. It took 10 years, and during this time I went to my native village from strength 2 times. I barely see my parents and I don’t remember this woman. Maybe the last time I saw her was when I was very young. Anyway, let’s say they are my relatives. What's next?
“Your apartment is small, of course. But this is nothing: in the crowd, but not in offense. We will buy a clamshell, do not worry, my new relative did not stop. I just didn't have words...
Unpleasant surprise "What were you talking about, what cot?" This is my apartment, I have lived here for a long time. “What do you have to do with it?” he replied without hiding his anger. And that's where the real circus started.
It turned out that the son of these people went to college and he needed somewhere to live. They have no money for the apartment. And they do not even consider the hostel, because “there are no conditions, it will be impossible to study there!” Um, what did I have to do with that?
“Your dad promised me he would help me in any way he could.” And here we are. Didn't he call you? It doesn't matter, we're here! Your relatives, and your relatives need help. Would you say no? my aunt asked.
I was very angry and wasn't going to waste my time on strangers to me: "I don't have a dormitory here." This is the first time I've seen your son and I'm not going to live with him. I didn't talk to my dad either. My girlfriend visits me often, so why should I share my house with someone else? It's not gonna happen!
The woman almost cried. I really didn’t care much at the time. I am clearly right in this situation, not them. Although I caught myself thinking that somehow ashamed. But what can I do? You don't do that, that's a fact.
They left without even saying goodbye. I went to bed and then I called my mom. When she found out, she was very upset. They said they were really distant relatives. And that family needs help. Maybe I don't understand something. Cats are still scratching on their hearts...
Here is an unexpected guest for you... Not one, but three! The situation, of course, is strange and atypical. However, one thing is clear: adequate people do not do this. First, you can not break into someone else’s house without warning and approval. Secondly, family ties do not mean that you have to help anyone. Especially if you see someone for the first time in your life.
What do you think about it and what would you do in such a situation? They shared their impressions in the comments. We'll be interested in your opinion!
I had an unexpected guest that day. I was going to get some sleep, start my day slowly and spend it with a girl. But the plans collapsed when suddenly the doorbell rang. On the doorstep stood three people: a man and a woman about 45 years old and a young guy. I saw them for the first time, to be honest.
“Well, hello, Kolenka! It's so good to see you! You're a grown-up, of course. Pasha, bring things, what is on the threshold to stand? - the woman smiled joyfully, glanced at me and transferred him to her, apparently, son. I was just in shock...
“Who are you and what do you want? What does it mean to bring things in? I did not invite you into the house! – I protested. The uninvited guest changed his face, smoohed: Kolya, do you not remember us? We are distant relatives: I am your father’s cousin, this is my husband, and this is our son Pasha.
I moved from the village when I was 20 years old. It took 10 years, and during this time I went to my native village from strength 2 times. I barely see my parents and I don’t remember this woman. Maybe the last time I saw her was when I was very young. Anyway, let’s say they are my relatives. What's next?
“Your apartment is small, of course. But this is nothing: in the crowd, but not in offense. We will buy a clamshell, do not worry, my new relative did not stop. I just didn't have words...
Unpleasant surprise "What were you talking about, what cot?" This is my apartment, I have lived here for a long time. “What do you have to do with it?” he replied without hiding his anger. And that's where the real circus started.
It turned out that the son of these people went to college and he needed somewhere to live. They have no money for the apartment. And they do not even consider the hostel, because “there are no conditions, it will be impossible to study there!” Um, what did I have to do with that?
“Your dad promised me he would help me in any way he could.” And here we are. Didn't he call you? It doesn't matter, we're here! Your relatives, and your relatives need help. Would you say no? my aunt asked.
I was very angry and wasn't going to waste my time on strangers to me: "I don't have a dormitory here." This is the first time I've seen your son and I'm not going to live with him. I didn't talk to my dad either. My girlfriend visits me often, so why should I share my house with someone else? It's not gonna happen!
The woman almost cried. I really didn’t care much at the time. I am clearly right in this situation, not them. Although I caught myself thinking that somehow ashamed. But what can I do? You don't do that, that's a fact.
They left without even saying goodbye. I went to bed and then I called my mom. When she found out, she was very upset. They said they were really distant relatives. And that family needs help. Maybe I don't understand something. Cats are still scratching on their hearts...
Here is an unexpected guest for you... Not one, but three! The situation, of course, is strange and atypical. However, one thing is clear: adequate people do not do this. First, you can not break into someone else’s house without warning and approval. Secondly, family ties do not mean that you have to help anyone. Especially if you see someone for the first time in your life.
What do you think about it and what would you do in such a situation? They shared their impressions in the comments. We'll be interested in your opinion!
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