Began to smile more often, take forty years in my firm 50

Why smile in spite of all adversity and proudly walk along the path of hope, giving others joy, warmth and comfort?



Nothing would be a better explanation than a true story about women’s burden. So that's what we're going to tell you today.

Once upon a time there was a laugher named Lilya. She always helped everyone, smiled a lot and tried to find positive things in any situation. This girl was open-hearted, open and kind to everyone. And not to say that she was an unearthly beauty, and people still threw after her admiring glances.



As the years passed, and slowly Lily’s life began to be overshadowed by various unpleasant events. This is the first major disappointment in love. This is the first financial crisis. But the most precious person left her life.



Slowly, the bright smile of the girl lost its charm. Became tense, unnatural, sarcastic... By the age of 43, there was no trace of the former laugh. Now the place of a funny girl was taken by a stately woman. She smelled of confidence, grace and icy calm. It was so cold that people were afraid to approach Lily closer than the distance of the outstretched arm. And it should be noted that our heroine did not bother at all.



Lilya has long learned to live alone. She did not want to let anyone into her dilapidated, once sunny world. Too many have neglected her hospitality, too many have failed to live up to the trust shown in them.

Lilya learned to hide the traces of insomnia with a tonal cream, and also earned a lot of money and managed to mask all the wrinkles, reminiscent of the lesions suffered, with the help of cosmetic procedures.



Lilya was happy and proud of herself. This is what it has become - self-sufficient, independent, severe. At least that's what she thought during the day. And at night she remembered the times when she could laugh all day long, and how her loud laughter filled the whole space, warming people around. I remember and desperately wanted to be that laugher. But no matter how hard our girl tried, nothing worked.

“It seems that I have forgotten how to smile,” Lilya once again notes to herself and tirelessly closes her eyes. “It is half past five in the morning. Get up at eight. Great, there's three and a half hours to sleep. Tomorrow will be a new day. A new day without a smile.

Of course, life does not consist of only bright stripes. But let’s not forget that it’s not just dark sides. Someone gets more trials, and with someone fate is more frugal. And yet, each of us one day has to face something that knocks the ground out of our feet and radically changes our worldview. And the worst thing you can do in such a situation is to lose faith in the good and the ability to smile.



Many women believe that modern cosmetology works wonders. And no matter what external changes occur as a result of grief, everything can be corrected. Many chase youth and beauty, trying to return the joy of bygone years and again feel like young charmers. That’s just no treatments and no cosmetics will not be able to return the shine of the eyes and radiant smile that were lost along with the hope for change for the better.

So while you still have that spark, smile at the world and warm it with your smile. You will see that the heat will come back to you.

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