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What an excuse to not call your daughter-in-law for her birthday?
Daughter-in-law's child First marriage can be a bone of contention in the family. What if there were two children and no marriage? No writing. The heroine of our history Olga does not want to put up with the fact that her son became a father for other people's offspring. Of course, she does not accept her daughter-in-law either. Why this is happening and whether it is possible to resolve this conflict, read further in the article.
Mom's daughter-in-law's child should understand me. The situation is not easy, so I ask for your help. Not long ago my son got married. He is 27 years old and his girlfriend is 30. The difference is small, it didn’t bother me much. The problem was worse: this woman had two children of her own.
Before the wedding, I constantly argued with Pasha, saying that I would not accept them. I was upset because before this Julia, my son had a beautiful girlfriend, his age. They dated for a long time, but then suddenly broke up.
Pasha constantly suspected her of everything, delayed the wedding, because he was not sure about her. And then she stunned him with the news that she was pregnant. Of course, as a mother, I insisted they get married. But Pasha said he doubts at all that he is the father of the child.
“You don’t want to be like your father who left us when you were little, do you? Think about it, would Katyusha lie to you? What nonsense! - then I believed that my son's girlfriend was honest with him. I also didn’t want Pasha to repeat my ex-husband’s mistakes. But everyone has their own way.
It turned out that Katya really cheated on Pasha. She disappeared from his life, and my relationship with my son became more strained. Then he announced the wedding without consulting me. I didn't come to the painting. She suffered for a long time and eventually decided to meet Pasha’s new wife and her children. Gathered up and called.
The wife of Pasha dressed very discreetly, neatly. Behaved as politely as possible, apparently wanted to like me. The children did not talk too much, they really liked my food. Boy 8, girl 5. Dinner we spent almost silently, sometimes spreading on duty phrases. There really was only one moment.
I made my signature meat casserole. Pasha never loved her, but all our relatives always liked her. Let me buy you a new daughter-in-law, let her know how to cook. She apparently didn't know about her new husband's preferences and wanted to give him a piece.
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I grabbed her hand and said, "He won't eat it, don't even try." To which Julia was very surprised and said: "Are you sure?" It's just that my casserole Pasha is tucking into both cheeks.” There was a fire of anger inside me, but I held back. The final point was that I heard the children of this Julia call my son Dad.
Before she left, her daughter asked me, “Are you going to be our grandmother now?” I immediately said, "No!" I'm not your grandmother, I'm Pasha's mom, remember that! As you can see, this was our first and last meeting.
2001.1047
Pasha called me and made a scandal, saying why say such things to small children. I just told them the truth! “What do you want from me? They probably have their grandparents. And in general, your Julia is kind of very serious, and the children are silent! - I threw it at last and hung up.
We haven't spoken since then. It's my anniversary soon and I can't find a place. I think there's a reason why you shouldn't call your daughter-in-law, but your son should come. I really hope that he will come by himself. Why drag strangers into the house?
When I called my son to invite him, he just refused! “Sorry, my son is on vacation and we are taking him to summer camp. We will not be able to come, Pasha replied easily and easily. Why would I do this? First betrayed by her husband, now her own son. I'll be all alone in my old age!
From the editorial board I tend to think that People always get what they deserve.. Olga is no exception. What does it matter how old your son is and if she has children, if the man is really happy? It is a pity that children who are not guilty of anything often suffer from such problems.
Do you think it's okay to argue over a daughter-in-law having a child or multiple children? Share your opinion in the comments!
Mom's daughter-in-law's child should understand me. The situation is not easy, so I ask for your help. Not long ago my son got married. He is 27 years old and his girlfriend is 30. The difference is small, it didn’t bother me much. The problem was worse: this woman had two children of her own.
Before the wedding, I constantly argued with Pasha, saying that I would not accept them. I was upset because before this Julia, my son had a beautiful girlfriend, his age. They dated for a long time, but then suddenly broke up.
Pasha constantly suspected her of everything, delayed the wedding, because he was not sure about her. And then she stunned him with the news that she was pregnant. Of course, as a mother, I insisted they get married. But Pasha said he doubts at all that he is the father of the child.
“You don’t want to be like your father who left us when you were little, do you? Think about it, would Katyusha lie to you? What nonsense! - then I believed that my son's girlfriend was honest with him. I also didn’t want Pasha to repeat my ex-husband’s mistakes. But everyone has their own way.
It turned out that Katya really cheated on Pasha. She disappeared from his life, and my relationship with my son became more strained. Then he announced the wedding without consulting me. I didn't come to the painting. She suffered for a long time and eventually decided to meet Pasha’s new wife and her children. Gathered up and called.
The wife of Pasha dressed very discreetly, neatly. Behaved as politely as possible, apparently wanted to like me. The children did not talk too much, they really liked my food. Boy 8, girl 5. Dinner we spent almost silently, sometimes spreading on duty phrases. There really was only one moment.
I made my signature meat casserole. Pasha never loved her, but all our relatives always liked her. Let me buy you a new daughter-in-law, let her know how to cook. She apparently didn't know about her new husband's preferences and wanted to give him a piece.
82390
I grabbed her hand and said, "He won't eat it, don't even try." To which Julia was very surprised and said: "Are you sure?" It's just that my casserole Pasha is tucking into both cheeks.” There was a fire of anger inside me, but I held back. The final point was that I heard the children of this Julia call my son Dad.
Before she left, her daughter asked me, “Are you going to be our grandmother now?” I immediately said, "No!" I'm not your grandmother, I'm Pasha's mom, remember that! As you can see, this was our first and last meeting.
2001.1047
Pasha called me and made a scandal, saying why say such things to small children. I just told them the truth! “What do you want from me? They probably have their grandparents. And in general, your Julia is kind of very serious, and the children are silent! - I threw it at last and hung up.
We haven't spoken since then. It's my anniversary soon and I can't find a place. I think there's a reason why you shouldn't call your daughter-in-law, but your son should come. I really hope that he will come by himself. Why drag strangers into the house?
When I called my son to invite him, he just refused! “Sorry, my son is on vacation and we are taking him to summer camp. We will not be able to come, Pasha replied easily and easily. Why would I do this? First betrayed by her husband, now her own son. I'll be all alone in my old age!
From the editorial board I tend to think that People always get what they deserve.. Olga is no exception. What does it matter how old your son is and if she has children, if the man is really happy? It is a pity that children who are not guilty of anything often suffer from such problems.
Do you think it's okay to argue over a daughter-in-law having a child or multiple children? Share your opinion in the comments!
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