When her husband left her daughter with children, she sold her house and rushed to her city.

Mom's help. It can be truly invaluable and gratitude is endless. But interpersonal relationships of people, even very close ones, tend to come to a dead end. However boundless gratitude may be, when it comes to the fate of each individual, everything happens.



Editorial "Site" Please read this text and join the discussion. Because advice is needed on how best to act in this situation. How to be a grateful mother, but still make your own life.

My husband left me with two children when one was two and the other was not a year old. I went looking for what he said was a calmer woman, because I'm eating his brain out. I saw it as a betrayal and told him to get out of my life. I won’t let you see my kids either, I’m not worthy of being a father. He accepted and disappeared from our lives. Weak.



I put a stop, rolled up my sleeves and threw myself into battle. But the forces, of course, were not equal. I literally had enough for three months, then I fell. My mother came to save me. Unfortunately, this is the karma of our family. I don't know my father either, and I've disappeared like this husband. For a week, I was just sleeping while my mom was taking care of the kids and cooking us food.

She made the decision on her own. Since I stayed in the capital, she sold an apartment in the area where we used to live, and with the proceeds bought one here. Mom stayed with me to help. It really untied my hands, I was able to focus on my studies and career. Of course, my perseverance bore fruit.



My mom was with me the whole time. I was so used to the idea that it would always help that I didn’t see any other options. My career went up, I began to earn more money, invest in my sons. One went to sports and makes progress there, the second is engaged in creativity, wants to be an artist.

Now the oldest is seventeen and the youngest is fifteen. We still live in the same apartment. Thank God I was able to get a three-bedroom mortgage and we sold one. But still, two grown-up guys, me and my mother, who has already entered the category of elderly, get a little cramped.



In addition, the mother began to feel worse, became more categorical, she likes her life less and she begins to broadcast this discontent on us. It seems that she does not want to notice that the guys have grown up, still trying to control them, meet them from school. It seems inappropriate for them, but my mother insists on her.

Besides, she's trying to control me. The thing is, not so long ago I had a man. Very good, I like it. The kids have grown up, will soon run away on their own business, so I decided to live a little for myself. I'm only a little over forty. Even her mother offered to do the same, but she believes that her train has long gone.



If she hadn’t helped me, maybe she would have. In general, our life has come into conflict. And I understand that it can't go on like this. I'm in the mood to rent an apartment for myself and my junior, the older one wants to stay here because it's closer to training. He'll look after Grandma, too. I'm gonna get closer to work. It would be fine, but it doesn’t look very beautiful.

After all, my mother helped me, and now I feel like I'm being ungrateful. I don't know how she'll take it, I haven't spoken to her yet. I'm leaving it in our three-bedroom apartment, I'm just taking things. But I still have this soul, I don't know how to do the right thing. I don’t want to hurt my mother, but it will be stupid to miss a chance.



We are waiting for your advice in the comments. It seems that our subscriber has really reached a dead end. We would advise her not to miss the chance. keep building your life. Perhaps my mother would reconsider her position. But in this particular case, we rely on your opinion. Share it, please!

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