What a married woman should not talk to a close friend

People make mistakes, especially when it comes to love. For example, inexperienced young-married Surely he will take the garbage out of the house and tell his friends about his problems with his husband. At the same time, a mature married woman will switch to her husband, devoting him to all the details of the life of her friends.



Of course, this does not always happen and not for everyone. However, the well-known Russian psychologist Anna Kiryanova believes that sooner or later a woman will unwittingly betray either her friend or her husband. Today's edition. "Site" I invite you to think about it.

Women need to share their experiences with others. If the problem is with your husband, who should you go to if not your girlfriend? Indeed, like behavior typical of our society. However, not everyone thinks about the possible consequences.



Women can discuss everything with each other. And hardly any man would want his wife’s girlfriend to know all the details of their personal life. And intimate? And all the stupid insults, mistakes and bad words? If a woman is offended, she may start complaining about her husband.

In the eyes of a friend, she Makes her husband look bad. Because of this, a friend can treat a man biased, knowingly condemning him for any actions. In fact, she will never know what really happened. Because women like to embellish things.



You may feel like you are doing nothing wrong. But in fact, such behavior can completely destroy the family. Kiryanova calls it a little betrayal, which triggers the cumulative effect. Sooner or later a man will know what is going on behind his back. And believe me, he's not gonna like it.

An absolutely similar situation can happen to a friend. Now the lifeblood for tears and complaints becomes the husband. A woman tells him about it. All the details and nuances of your friend’s life. And if, God forbid, the ladies quarrel, the poor man will have to listen twice.



If you know yourself, think about it. When you share such things with your husband, you expose all the flaws and not the best aspects of your friend. Of course you love her. However, this does not prevent your husband from treating her with caution, or even at all unkind.

I don't think your friend would like your husband to know everything about her. Although she completely trusted you, and not, in fact, a stranger to her man. As a result, women fight even more. At worst, they stop communicating.



There are worse cases, by the way. For example, a man begins to cheat on his wife, and a friend betrays. And, perhaps, the most classic option: the husband cheats on his wife not just with anyone, but with her best friend. Have you ever faced something like this?

Whatever happens in your family, it is better not to tell your friends about it. Taking the garbage out of the house, you pollute it even more. And very often, instead of Discuss exciting issues with your husbandWomen run to friends. I need advice. As a result, all offenses are still silenced and accumulated inside.

If a married woman had talked to her husband about what was bothering her, the divorce statistics would not have been so deplorable. However, the same applies to men. They also talk about their wives with their friends. But why are we so afraid to share our experiences with the closest person: husband or wife?



It seems to many that a friend, being an uninterested person, will be able to prompt, What's the best thing to do?. He will give you good advice and will always support you because he loves you unconditionally. Only you know how to solve a problem. In the end, you should have just talked to your husband.

We are convinced that a harmonious union is possible if Both partners will stop being silent.. Stop accumulating grievances or spilling all the negativity on your friend. If you learn to keep other people’s secrets and begin to appreciate people’s trust in yourself, you can fix any relationship.



Tell me, do you share with your friends the nuances of your personal life? Did this cause conflict in the family? It would be great if you could share your experience with us. We'll see you in the comments!