Met a gallant husband in a supermarket with another, decided to follow them

On whether to forgive treason, has already written a lot of text. Everyone advises different things: someone talks about forgiveness and humility, someone recommends. To leave a man like that right away. The one who changes will always change. The situation we are talking about is not quite standard. Let's try to figure it out together.

Forgiveness of treason The situation began as standard. My sister went to university in a nearby town. Katya studied diligently, she did not think too much about relationships. In the second year, one of the older guys from the fifth year began to take care of her. Valentine was gallant, did not climb under the skirt and seemed a real girl's dream.



At first, the sister treated him with a cold, but then it turned out that Valik has a fairly rich family. At 23, he was already driving a beautiful foreign car. Gradually, Katerina's heart melted and she allowed herself to be loved. Yes, this is the wording that describes the situation best.



A couple of years of romance, wedding and the appearance of the baby. It didn’t happen very quickly, but rather quickly. Sitting with two-year-old Saska at home, Katya realized that her husband had been for several weeks. He's always late at work. The discovery came suddenly and didn't like my sister at all.



She asked me to babysit, and she went to follow her husband. He allegedly went to an old family acquaintance. In the house of his friend Sasha found sleeping in an embrace with some young lady Valentine. After taking a few pictures, the house was private and everything was clearly visible from the window, the deceived wife went home.



Valik came next, a couple of hours later. While he was making excuses for such a long absence, Katya showed him pictures. Then I became a witness. Scandal with tears, accusations, oaths and requests. Katya agreed to forgive her husband, but only on her own terms: a new apartment and a new life in another city.



I was sorry that my sister was leaving, but apparently it was really better. After 10 years, Sasha had already gone to seventh grade, and everything was fine. And then all of a sudden, A call from my sister. She's hysterical, asking me to come.



I quickly packed up and the next day sat in Katya's kitchen. Everything turned out as I expected: once cheated wife again I saw my husband with another lady. The one I noticed 10 years ago. Katya went to the grocery store. Not finding the right vegetables in the nearest supermarket, I went to another part of the city.



Near the ice cream department, Katerina spotted her husband with his passion. She didn’t take pictures like she did last time, she just came. Her husband's reaction struck her. More specifically, the lack of response was striking: Her husband just ignored her. And he kept talking to another woman like nothing had happened.

Arriving home, Katya collected his things and threw him out the door, and he did not even justify himself. They just took their possessions and never spoke again.

Forgiveness is not an easy thing to do. Forgiveness is easy if you don't care. But the complexity is not just that. It's important. a matter of trust. It’s like you’re vulnerable to a particular person. And you're always waiting for a catch and looking for a reason to check. We all know that those who seek will always find.

What do you think of my sister and her life choices? Would you do the same?