Husband screams at me and my daughter, so dissolute that he does not understand in a good way, ask for help

In a relationship between two loving people can not always exist idyll. Even if it's a candy and bouquet period. Characters need to get to know each other better. Especially since nobody owes anyone anything. But being married all the time. screamer - that's too much. Such a family won't last long.



On the other hand, a couple can already have children, and leaving a child without a parent doesn’t seem like a good idea either. So what do we do? To endure, not to give up, to respond in kind? To be honest, in this situation we would really like to know the opinion of our dear readers.

Screaming husband Hello, editorial office "Site". I will try to be brief and only tell you the truth. My name is Marina, I'm 38 years old. I’ve been married for 8 years and have known my husband for 10 years. Well, my marriage is breaking at the seams. That's an understatement.



The whole relationship before the wedding was just great. Vanya almost carried me in his arms. He was moving away from a difficult breakup at the time, and for me, this relationship was not the first. We spent a long time walking outside, telling each other our most secret secrets, and in general it seemed as if we were a couple of schoolboys in love.

Then we got married. You think something's changed? Only for the better. Yes, there was not much money, but he always managed to get me something tasty, bought beautiful clothes. Sometimes I even saw how he could save on himself: his clothes, his rest, even his food, so that I could have everything.



And then I got pregnant. It was hard, because I have some health problems, but here Ivan turned his shoulder. But after the birth of his son, everything began to deteriorate. My husband became nervous and began to disappear from work. I thought he'd found someone, but his colleagues said they were overworking. And soon he was really promoted. But he became increasingly nervous.



Now Dima, our son, is 6 years old. Dad loves him and doesn't hurt him. I'm the one who takes all the anger out of me. No, it doesn't, but it hurts morally. Recently, for example, he called me 10 times a night, even though our friends were there. And when no one's around, he can yell at me like the last shoemaker. It's very hard to tolerate.

He had told me about his father before. He said that he had a heavy temper, but he fell out on the children: hit them with a belt, did not let them have dinner if the grades at school were bad. Said that's how he educates them. Thank goodness Ivan is not touching our son. So why would I “educate” when we’ve known each other for so many years? I can't be silent like Vanina's mom. It won't help, I've tried it before. Sometimes I felt that my silence only made him angry.



Before our wedding, I was contacted by his girlfriend. The one he broke up with before he met me. The city we have small and common friends to find easy, especially then social networks on the Internet is only gaining popularity. So, I thought she was going to talk me into leaving Ivan so she could get back together with him.

It was really different. She really talked me into breaking up with him, but for a different reason. Turns out he hit her and she realized she didn't need that guy. I probably still love my husband. But if I were given another chance to go back in time, I don’t even know if I would have listened to that advice or not, because it gave me my happiness – Dimochka. It's very difficult to decide. But if nothing is decided in the shortest possible time - to be divorced!



That's it, dear commentators. It seems to us that the situation is rather delicate, unfortunately, we have no clear answer. But maybe you have something to say about it. This is the advice for Marina and her marriage. We hope we can do this.