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The Inconsolable Life of a Woman Who Divorced at 60
Some people think that only green young people who have nothing to lose can make big changes in their lives. Our story today from the reader will be direct proof that in fact this is not so.
Gena and I have lived together for more than 35 years and have never thought about divorce. A few years ago, we would have been the happiest couple in the world. At least I thought so...
A couple of weeks ago, just at lunch, my husband calmly announced that he wanted a divorce.
I can't say I was stunned. I knew for a long time that he was having an affair with our housemate. Every summer, from dawn to dusk, he helped her in the garden. Now I know exactly what kind of help he gave her. God be with her.
It's not even about this woman. The thing is, I had no idea how much this relationship would affect my gene. I thought it was a minor affair. I wasn’t even jealous of him, because I was sure he would eventually realize that he had done something stupid and that everything would be the same. But that's not the worst part.
What struck me the most was the only son’s reaction to this whole situation. After learning that his parents were divorcing, he continued to communicate with his father and even agreed to be his best man, when he announced that he intends to remarry this one of his turntails.
The betrayal of one man can still be survived, but two at once. I feel infinitely alone and deceived by everyone. I don’t know what deserves this attitude...
Everyone is the creator of his own destiny. As you can see, you can change your life not only at 30, but also at 60. The main thing is to be sure that you need these changes and know that they will bring you happiness. As for our heroine, we are sure that she will soon understand her husband’s decision.
Do you think you should worry about divorce in this situation?
Gena and I have lived together for more than 35 years and have never thought about divorce. A few years ago, we would have been the happiest couple in the world. At least I thought so...
A couple of weeks ago, just at lunch, my husband calmly announced that he wanted a divorce.
I can't say I was stunned. I knew for a long time that he was having an affair with our housemate. Every summer, from dawn to dusk, he helped her in the garden. Now I know exactly what kind of help he gave her. God be with her.
It's not even about this woman. The thing is, I had no idea how much this relationship would affect my gene. I thought it was a minor affair. I wasn’t even jealous of him, because I was sure he would eventually realize that he had done something stupid and that everything would be the same. But that's not the worst part.
What struck me the most was the only son’s reaction to this whole situation. After learning that his parents were divorcing, he continued to communicate with his father and even agreed to be his best man, when he announced that he intends to remarry this one of his turntails.
The betrayal of one man can still be survived, but two at once. I feel infinitely alone and deceived by everyone. I don’t know what deserves this attitude...
Everyone is the creator of his own destiny. As you can see, you can change your life not only at 30, but also at 60. The main thing is to be sure that you need these changes and know that they will bring you happiness. As for our heroine, we are sure that she will soon understand her husband’s decision.
Do you think you should worry about divorce in this situation?
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