What to do if your child is replaced after marriage

Nothing can be worse for parents if something bad happens to their children. Even if the child has grown up and is a full-fledged part of society, it does not matter. Trouble with my son. Your daughter can lead to depression.



That is why adult parents should be more interested in what is happening to their child. Even if you're very careful. After all, as they say, small children are small troubles, and even big ones. I don't even want to think.

My father and I are people of the old, still “that” temper. I worked my whole life as a teacher and he was an engineer. It’s nice to know that our only son didn’t need anything, we always helped him.

First he went to a good school, a gymnasium. There we tried to make his mental development added to the sport, so that the last call our son heard being a well-formed teenager, who did not develop bad habits, but had a clear understanding of what to do in the future and where to go.



Then medical school. It’s a difficult time, but only because there was so much to learn. My father and I tried to help, but my son refused. He said that a doctor is a profession that does not allow mistakes. I was not surprised when he graduated with honors. Internship was also quite easy, because the son was obsessed with independence.

At the age of 27, he began teaching at the academy while working as a doctor. He is now 33 years old and has a great career. However, the success of our boy is not in everything.



The hardest thing for him is to start a relationship. So it was during school: despite the athletic young man, the girls somehow did not show much interest in him. My dad and I thought it was that age and girls were more interested in high school upstarts and bullies. Well, let him.

At the institute, there was simply no time for girls: constant lectures, exams, a sea of educational material. We were a little worried about it, but what can we do?

And already being an adult man, the son could not stand it: he registered on all dating sites, met girls on the street, in cafes and so on. Unfortunately, the reaction was not always positive. Because of this, he probably lost his confidence.



Then my son stopped talking to us. We probably talked on the phone once every two or three weeks, and even then our communication did not last more than five minutes. Learn about health, what’s new, and that’s all.

It became a little easier when he turned 30. He found a friend who quickly “came into position.” My father and I were delighted. Finally, grandson! Pride and joy.

But in fact, things got worse. My son, because he was married, stopped calling us. My daughter-in-law had seen us once or twice, but she seemed to despise us. The grandson we saw for the first time quite recently, a strong, healthy hero. But we feel that the next time we will show such happiness in 5 years.

We don't understand why we're being treated like this, maybe our daughter-in-law just bewitched our boy. But is this possible in our enlightened 21st century? And why such a dirty trick, because we are to her with all our heart!



Don't get us wrong, we gave our son everything we needed: an apartment and a car were bought with our money. And the fact that we kept him a little more at home than the other parents of their children, and that's only for the better. Look at his career now. We believe that everything was done correctly and do not really understand why we are treated this way.

We should keep our grandson. At least half a year. Let the parents go about their business, and we'll babysit him a little. It'll make everyone comfortable. My daughter-in-law doesn’t want to do that at all. I don't know how we hurt her.



As they say, someone else's family is dark. And to advise something specific our editorial, unfortunately, can not. Perhaps our readers will not stand aside and bring some clarity. Welcome to the comment.