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How to get back a husband who left because he wasn't registered in my apartment
As you know, the housing problem destroyed many families. Editorial "Site" I will share a story that just proves it. We will show by example how sometimes a residence permit in a purchased apartment becomes more significant than a close person nearby.
My relationship with my husband from the beginning of our acquaintance was very difficult. We were not like a normal family, where partners truly love each other. Oleg and I always believed that the main thing in marriage is not this, but mutual understanding and support, because love still passes sooner or later. I don't know if we were right or not, but we've been married for 8 years.
However, recently Oleg suddenly began to worry about the fact that he spelled-out in my apartment. The most important thing is that the apartment is mine. He had never thought about it before, but now he needed it. He's convinced it shouldn't be like that.
Naturally, I turned him down. I repeat, the apartment is mine, not his. Why should it be written in it? I don't understand. Yeah, he's my husband. But marriages are falling apart, and we're talking about hard-earned property. Besides, why didn't he bother at all before? What has changed now?
After my refusal, Oleg was offended and left. I understand that this is not the behavior of an adult, a good person, if he is ready to abandon the family so easily and simply. I really don’t understand why he’s in my apartment. What if we decide to break up?
I talked to his friends, and they say that my decision speaks of the lack of confidence My husband. If the wife is not ready to register her spouse in her apartment (which she bought with her own money), then this is a sign of distrust.
Why didn’t he try to make his own home? I would have tried it myself before accusing me of mistrust. The situation seems very strange to me. I really hope that Oleg will call soon so that we can discuss everything calmly. I have enough misunderstandings in our house.
Well, quite a complex and, unfortunately, very common picture. We believe that everyone has the right to dispose of their property as they wish. And what about those who do not share this opinion, everyone decides for himself. The main thing is that in the end everyone is happy and happy, right?
Who do you think is the truth about this story? Boldly share your thoughts in the comments. Good luck!
My relationship with my husband from the beginning of our acquaintance was very difficult. We were not like a normal family, where partners truly love each other. Oleg and I always believed that the main thing in marriage is not this, but mutual understanding and support, because love still passes sooner or later. I don't know if we were right or not, but we've been married for 8 years.
However, recently Oleg suddenly began to worry about the fact that he spelled-out in my apartment. The most important thing is that the apartment is mine. He had never thought about it before, but now he needed it. He's convinced it shouldn't be like that.
Naturally, I turned him down. I repeat, the apartment is mine, not his. Why should it be written in it? I don't understand. Yeah, he's my husband. But marriages are falling apart, and we're talking about hard-earned property. Besides, why didn't he bother at all before? What has changed now?
After my refusal, Oleg was offended and left. I understand that this is not the behavior of an adult, a good person, if he is ready to abandon the family so easily and simply. I really don’t understand why he’s in my apartment. What if we decide to break up?
I talked to his friends, and they say that my decision speaks of the lack of confidence My husband. If the wife is not ready to register her spouse in her apartment (which she bought with her own money), then this is a sign of distrust.
Why didn’t he try to make his own home? I would have tried it myself before accusing me of mistrust. The situation seems very strange to me. I really hope that Oleg will call soon so that we can discuss everything calmly. I have enough misunderstandings in our house.
Well, quite a complex and, unfortunately, very common picture. We believe that everyone has the right to dispose of their property as they wish. And what about those who do not share this opinion, everyone decides for himself. The main thing is that in the end everyone is happy and happy, right?
Who do you think is the truth about this story? Boldly share your thoughts in the comments. Good luck!
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