A letter to his wife that takes a bad example from friends and demands a divorce

Every day more and more young people refuse to marry. And not only from the offer of the hand and heart, but also from the one whose ties have already managed to bind themselves. What is it that pushes spouses to divorce, how to renew the spark in the relationship and when is it really worth divorcing? That's the editorial. "Site" He wants to find out today.



So what happens when praying for marriage doesn’t help? Let's figure it out!

The story of the reader “Wife asks for divorce” “We got married recently quite, only 3 years have passed.” Meanwhile, during this time, the daughter was already born, and life was arranged, everything was always fine, not a single major quarrel for all the time did not happen. But recently, the wife was replaced: she does not look at all in the eyes, she runs to her friends in the evenings, she always returns cheerful, and as she sees me, a smile immediately comes off her lips.



A couple of days ago, she said, “We need a divorce, I don’t love you anymore.” Good news! Why doesn't he like it? And why all of a sudden? After all, it was quiet and peaceful... There is a suspicion, of course, that it was her friends who persuaded her (they are all free, she is married among them, probably imitates them simply). But what do I do? I can’t let her go just because I love her and I know that she loves, and she rested and insists on her..., writes the annoyed 26-year-old Vyacheslav.

What immediately catches the eye in the story of Vyacheslav, is that the family is quite young. It is known that earlier people got engaged at an earlier age, but it is worth considering that then and times were different. Previously, marriage was considered an integral part of a happy and fulfilling life. Today, young people have so many opportunities for fulfillment that the idea of starting a family and taking responsibility for someone else no longer seems so wonderful.

From the story of our reader we can understand one thing: Vyacheslav is fully ready for family and obligations, but his wife, probably, hastened to say the cherished “Yes”.



Perhaps the girl was really influenced by friends who explained to her the true meaning of loneliness. Or maybe the wife of Vyacheslav really suddenly realized that her feelings cooled down. None of the options can be ruled out, because life is sometimes completely unpredictable.

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The desire of a young girl to live for herself and feel free is quite understandable. She understands that right now in her life can happen many incredible events and unusual acquaintances. And, of course, she understands that, taking care of her husband and child all day long, she misses it all.



What do you do in such a situation? The answer is simple: fight. Vyacheslav should remember how he cared for his wife at the initial stage of their relationship to gain her sympathy. It is necessary to show the wife that in marriage she can receive enough attention and positive emotions.



And if this does not work, then it is really better to let go of your beloved. A man who seeks freedom cannot be held back and reproached by appealing to a sense of duty.