Life shows us what we REJECT

Life shows us what we REJECT

How?

Yes, we just don't have it...
Someone's love, someone's in a relationship, and someone money.
 



And we reject what we lacked in childhood.

This is the key to understanding.

Not enough love and so now there is no love.

Not enough proximity, bodily contact and so now there is no normal, regular sex.

Not enough of a sense of predictability, security, and protection.
The feeling of control over what is happening.
Peace and support...

And so... you know...

So now it is not.

And I would say (it's hard, but it's true!), that and never will.

As long as we don't stop to reject it.

Until you agree to accept.

But not love, closeness, or support.

No.





And pain.
At first, the pain.

Because the reason we decided to reject.

What we really wanted.
But... can

Couldn't get.

When you really want, but can't , it hurts.
Very.

And when it literally affects your life (as a child), it is not just painful, it's UNBEARABLE.

And then a decision is made to reject it.
Forever!

And everyone is something different...

Someone love.
Someone intimacy, sex, relationships.

And someone safety and security, peace and support...

And it will not come until we decide again to take this.

And everyone is something different...

For example, lately I have almost all client work is about relationship.
And I see it happening...

What determination is necessary to re-open.

And agree to accept... published

Author: Sergey Muckin

 

P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©

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