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"In-out" strength
Your thoughts about the value of human feelings that make us real and alive, especially for econet.ru shared psychologist Sergei Muchkin.
"In-out" strength. Strength appears when connected with something inside myself. With yourself, with your true self... it can be different.
And the key to this — just BE with your feelings. That is. Right here and now!
Fear — fear.
Embarrassed — so embarrassed.
Joy — so joy.
What feelings manifest themselves — our children's And Ya they are the same — our deep, true self.
And everything else is a mask protection, "vyzhivatelnogo strategy"...
Yes, they are also necessary and useful (who would argue...) is only life in them.
Any feelings, even the most difficult and "unpleasant" — it's about Life!!
And "protection", "mask", vyzhivatelnogo strategy (even the most "decent" reliable, "right") — paradoxically — it is always "about death."
Even after attempts to "avoid death".
I will take the liberty to assert, that there is no more attractive to men — women who, right now, with him living his... embarrassment, your shame, your anger, your helplessness... Your feelings!
Because then it is — REAL !!
And because it's about Life!!
And there is nothing more attractive than Life! Even in the other person.
By the way — to men this also fully applies.
Author: Sergey Muchkin, especially for
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©
Source: Sergey Muckin
"In-out" strength. Strength appears when connected with something inside myself. With yourself, with your true self... it can be different.
And the key to this — just BE with your feelings. That is. Right here and now!
Fear — fear.
Embarrassed — so embarrassed.
Joy — so joy.
What feelings manifest themselves — our children's And Ya they are the same — our deep, true self.
And everything else is a mask protection, "vyzhivatelnogo strategy"...
Yes, they are also necessary and useful (who would argue...) is only life in them.
Any feelings, even the most difficult and "unpleasant" — it's about Life!!
And "protection", "mask", vyzhivatelnogo strategy (even the most "decent" reliable, "right") — paradoxically — it is always "about death."
Even after attempts to "avoid death".
I will take the liberty to assert, that there is no more attractive to men — women who, right now, with him living his... embarrassment, your shame, your anger, your helplessness... Your feelings!
Because then it is — REAL !!
And because it's about Life!!
And there is nothing more attractive than Life! Even in the other person.
By the way — to men this also fully applies.
Author: Sergey Muchkin, especially for
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©
Source: Sergey Muckin
