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Michael Litvak: All we have now is the best
Four "YES" for the happinessWe all dream to be happy and successful, but how to achieve this? To be in harmony with yourself — you need to learn to say "Yes" to several factors. Four "YES" remind you of the most basic and simple things.
In one Chinese village there lived an old man, he was poor, but the only thing he had a magnificent white horse. Even the rich and the king himself wanted to buy the horse, but the old man answered that he could not sell it, as is his friend, and friends don't sell.
But one morning the old man found his horse in the stable. The part of the people of the village sympathized with the old man, and part gloating. People discussing what is a misfortune to lose a horse, but the old man remained calm and accepted what happened with dignity.
A few days later the horse returned and brought with him a dozen beautiful stallions. Some people from the village were happy for the old man, part envied him. Now all talked about how lucky old man, and that misfortune has brought success. And only the old man did not give assessments of the situation, just accepted it as it is.
The only son of the old man began to break in a new stallion and unsuccessful falling, broke both his legs. And again, some people sympathized, part discussed and talked about the misfortune. The old man remained calm.
After a week in the city came the war and all men went to the front, but the son of man, because he had a broken leg. And again people say that misfortune has changed to luck that the old man is now lucky. But the old sage saying, that no event it is impossible to judge, only God can do that. For us each event is a reality, life consists of such moments, and our task is to accept them and live, but not to condemn. To condemn means to evolve, not go forward on its way, stuck in the side. Life is one long journey where you're not allowed to freeze.
Author: Michael Litvak
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©
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- First Yes you need to tell the world adopting it as it is. The world has no emotional content, the world is what it is, but not what you feel it depending on events in your life. In the world there are both good and evil, happiness and disasters, it is necessary to take it all in and realize that the world does not need to be afraid. Absolutely all of the events, both positive and negative — is our reality, fear this is pointless, it all happens with us and without us.
- The second factor that you need to realize is the gift of life. Life, as well as the world need to take, along with all its features, pluses and minuses. Happen in life and anxiety, and betrayal, and deceptions, but it is only a part, a component of our existence. In addition, there are many other aspects, and together they constitute our lives. Today we can have it all, and tomorrow is all to lose, but this is only a manifestation of life, every failure is an event that you need to take and not to get upset.
In one Chinese village there lived an old man, he was poor, but the only thing he had a magnificent white horse. Even the rich and the king himself wanted to buy the horse, but the old man answered that he could not sell it, as is his friend, and friends don't sell.
But one morning the old man found his horse in the stable. The part of the people of the village sympathized with the old man, and part gloating. People discussing what is a misfortune to lose a horse, but the old man remained calm and accepted what happened with dignity.
A few days later the horse returned and brought with him a dozen beautiful stallions. Some people from the village were happy for the old man, part envied him. Now all talked about how lucky old man, and that misfortune has brought success. And only the old man did not give assessments of the situation, just accepted it as it is.
The only son of the old man began to break in a new stallion and unsuccessful falling, broke both his legs. And again, some people sympathized, part discussed and talked about the misfortune. The old man remained calm.
After a week in the city came the war and all men went to the front, but the son of man, because he had a broken leg. And again people say that misfortune has changed to luck that the old man is now lucky. But the old sage saying, that no event it is impossible to judge, only God can do that. For us each event is a reality, life consists of such moments, and our task is to accept them and live, but not to condemn. To condemn means to evolve, not go forward on its way, stuck in the side. Life is one long journey where you're not allowed to freeze.
- The third "Yes" is acceptance of oneself is a very important step that everyone must perform. To learn how to take a challenging task, but feasible. Be aware of yourself now, in this moment, and accept that the way you are, with problems and failures, victories and defeats, love and hate. All of this – you don't need to try to embellish anything, I just need to accept. When a person fails to do it, he can withdraw into themselves, to cease to communicate properly with people and can't develop. In other cases, people do not accept themselves, trying to play some kind of invented the role, to be someone, not corresponding to reality.
- The fourth "Yes" need to say this time. It is difficult to do from what we often head in the clouds, imagine a better life, dream it, build castles in the air. And forget that life is happening now, in the moment. We forget that everything we have now — all the events, difficulties, people, things – everything is the best. And we have to accept and fully love.
Author: Michael Litvak
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©
Source: litvak.me/statyi/article_post/chetyre sezona-da-dlya-schastya