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If we are limited to observation only at the external side of things, you can very much mistaken. For example, when we judge something based on the results or visible effort. Because we never know what internal price a person pays for what he's doing.

For example, someone in the competition came last in the marathon. A loser, a wimp? And here I am, as a former athlete, I think about how much of the internal forces he might have needed to go the distance — because that temptation is there and still limped to the finish line. Knowing that you are the last.





©Noell S. Oszvald

How much internal effort is required to tell the truth directly in the face of parents, and without teen challenge, and with the fear — now will be punished. And it is often punished. It turns out — for the truth.

Soldiers in battle may wet himself from fear (and it happens quite often). But to stay in position. Someone may laugh at this, but those who laugh — they would remain in position, if the legs flowed from horror?

How much inner courage may require a simple "no" to his boss, terribly reminiscent of the father-tyrant. Yes, here is stammering, unsure, scared, pathetic "no". According to the degree of intensity of this experience can reach the level of stress in combat.

To go on stage and play out a bad start to a melody, read a verse, to finish the monologue. Or to go to the Mat for a losing competition in the martial arts or clumsy to jump from a three-meter springboard — when you terribly want to prostimulirujte disease and give...

Declaration of love — or even to approach a girl/boy. For the first time to spread in the network your poem/article. To agree to show their work as a psychologist in front of colleagues. To organize with young children show for the audience. To speak with a foreigner in his language with this funny or rude accent, for someone, and for someone-to hang over the precipice.

If something bad happened — not necessarily hypocritical to praise and say that "all excellent!" I don't like this sugary positive. But to say about respect for those who came and decided — it's very important.





©Marco Grob



If you don't want to go somewhere — don'T GO!Do not wear CLOSE to you people

The courage to be manifested in such moments — when everything inside is compressed, when you pay high domestic price — but they do. It is often not in the process and not the result. And that decided. Even if that made some people think are worthless or insignificant.

Therefore, it crushes self-esteem whose self-confident "well, it's just... ", "well, it's just..." or "if only...".First run down. Last. Under the whistle.published

 

Author: Ilya Latypov

 



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