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Without a pair – so "lonely" and 9 kinds of lies that convinced you to believe
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1. Without a pair – so "lonely»
The fact that you're alone now, doesn't mean you are alone. And, for that matter, personal relationships are no guarantee of happiness. And staying without a pair, you'll never be as lonely as in the wrong relationship.
If you understand that life with this man not good, better to break these relations, and spend a little time on the most important person in your life – yourself. Try to find yourself. To regain self-esteem. And the next time you find yourself rapidly sinking in personal relationships, you will be ready in time to leave them.
Ninety three million eighty eight thousand eight hundred sixty two
2. Happiness is when you have all you want
The fact that you are happy, does not mean that you do not want to. First of all, it means that you grateful for what you have, and wait patiently for what will happen.
Sometimes we are so addicted to the desire for something big that completely cease to notice those tiny things that make our life magical.
So appreciate today – believe me, it's worth it. After all, he's one of those "good old days" that you will be such a nostalgia to reminisce in old age.
3. If someone is bad, you will see it immediately
We all sometimes painful, and scary, and bad. Just some have learned to hide it much better than others. You don't know what happens behind the closed doors of their souls, but because you judge people only by what you see – a waste of time and effort.
If you have time to discuss and condemn other people, you have too much free time. Better point it to something decent.
4. Life must go a certain way, and nothing else
No one can hurt stronger than we are. But causing his heart a wound, we can heal – it is sometimes enough not to be shy of your thoughts and be realistic. After all, we always have a choice how to respond to those situations with which life confronts us.
So, reject unrealistic image in your head that you are trying to fit your life, and start to take it for what it is. Change what can be changed, change your perspective on what you cannot change and keep moving forward.
Nine million four hundred sixty eight thousand two hundred seventy seven
5. You have to be like someone else
When you cease to compare yourself with other people, whether real or fictional, and when you cease to compare yourself with other versions of themselves (for the most part exist only in your head), but then you begin to live in peace – and only peace there is absolutely nothing illusory.
6. Truly a great life living only a select few
If every morning you Wake up saying "Today I will be a great day" and to sleep, knowing how much he was good... Only then, one day, many years later, you can, remembering the past, smile and say, "My life was just excellent."
7. We don't need hard times
Sometimes in order to find happiness, you need to go through a real hell.
Sometimes in order to meet the right people, you should get rid of those who have no place in your life.
Sometimes in order to understand what it means to be strong, you must feel weak.
Sometimes you feel like your soul is split apart to form the unbreakable integrity.
Sometimes to find that one person with whom you can live the rest of your life, you need to pass through crowds of people.
Sometimes we have to meet with open arms both good and bad, knowing that in the end both brings us invaluable experience.
8. To be strong means to feel pain
In fact, strong people are the ones who feel pain, accept it, learn from it everything you can, and then overcome it.
The essence of the force resolve to ask about respite, to shed tears, shake, and then to return to the ring to fight like you've never had.
One million eight hundred sixteen thousand eight hundred eleven
9. Lie "for the benefit" — this is normal
Before you say "I love you", feel the love.
Really be thankful for, thanks someone.
Feel remorse, apologizing.
Believe it – when your words are backed up by a genuine feeling, they penetrate into the depths of the hearts of others.
Also interesting: If you want to know love, stop lying!
Liz Gilbert. The best advice in my life
10. Dream – waste of time
The greatest gifts are those that are not visible to the eyes but felt with the heart. What we see, only a small part of what is possible. Imagination is the ability to look beyond the horizon, to imagine something that is very important for us, but still hidden from sight.
Somewhere and someday you certainly will find something incredible – if your dream will be enough to get him. published
©Tat Melqon
Source: www.psychology-age.ru/2014/10/10_70.html
The fact that you're alone now, doesn't mean you are alone. And, for that matter, personal relationships are no guarantee of happiness. And staying without a pair, you'll never be as lonely as in the wrong relationship.
If you understand that life with this man not good, better to break these relations, and spend a little time on the most important person in your life – yourself. Try to find yourself. To regain self-esteem. And the next time you find yourself rapidly sinking in personal relationships, you will be ready in time to leave them.
Ninety three million eighty eight thousand eight hundred sixty two
2. Happiness is when you have all you want
The fact that you are happy, does not mean that you do not want to. First of all, it means that you grateful for what you have, and wait patiently for what will happen.
Sometimes we are so addicted to the desire for something big that completely cease to notice those tiny things that make our life magical.
So appreciate today – believe me, it's worth it. After all, he's one of those "good old days" that you will be such a nostalgia to reminisce in old age.
3. If someone is bad, you will see it immediately
We all sometimes painful, and scary, and bad. Just some have learned to hide it much better than others. You don't know what happens behind the closed doors of their souls, but because you judge people only by what you see – a waste of time and effort.
If you have time to discuss and condemn other people, you have too much free time. Better point it to something decent.
4. Life must go a certain way, and nothing else
No one can hurt stronger than we are. But causing his heart a wound, we can heal – it is sometimes enough not to be shy of your thoughts and be realistic. After all, we always have a choice how to respond to those situations with which life confronts us.
So, reject unrealistic image in your head that you are trying to fit your life, and start to take it for what it is. Change what can be changed, change your perspective on what you cannot change and keep moving forward.
Nine million four hundred sixty eight thousand two hundred seventy seven
5. You have to be like someone else
When you cease to compare yourself with other people, whether real or fictional, and when you cease to compare yourself with other versions of themselves (for the most part exist only in your head), but then you begin to live in peace – and only peace there is absolutely nothing illusory.
6. Truly a great life living only a select few
If every morning you Wake up saying "Today I will be a great day" and to sleep, knowing how much he was good... Only then, one day, many years later, you can, remembering the past, smile and say, "My life was just excellent."
7. We don't need hard times
Sometimes in order to find happiness, you need to go through a real hell.
Sometimes in order to meet the right people, you should get rid of those who have no place in your life.
Sometimes in order to understand what it means to be strong, you must feel weak.
Sometimes you feel like your soul is split apart to form the unbreakable integrity.
Sometimes to find that one person with whom you can live the rest of your life, you need to pass through crowds of people.
Sometimes we have to meet with open arms both good and bad, knowing that in the end both brings us invaluable experience.
8. To be strong means to feel pain
In fact, strong people are the ones who feel pain, accept it, learn from it everything you can, and then overcome it.
The essence of the force resolve to ask about respite, to shed tears, shake, and then to return to the ring to fight like you've never had.
One million eight hundred sixteen thousand eight hundred eleven
9. Lie "for the benefit" — this is normal
Before you say "I love you", feel the love.
Really be thankful for, thanks someone.
Feel remorse, apologizing.
Believe it – when your words are backed up by a genuine feeling, they penetrate into the depths of the hearts of others.
Also interesting: If you want to know love, stop lying!
Liz Gilbert. The best advice in my life
10. Dream – waste of time
The greatest gifts are those that are not visible to the eyes but felt with the heart. What we see, only a small part of what is possible. Imagination is the ability to look beyond the horizon, to imagine something that is very important for us, but still hidden from sight.
Somewhere and someday you certainly will find something incredible – if your dream will be enough to get him. published
©Tat Melqon
Source: www.psychology-age.ru/2014/10/10_70.html
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