Careful! Virtual male

You have probably seen these. Assigns a date and disappears.Spend days writing to him are not lazy, Wirth (virtual sex) deals with pleasure, and in the real world is not. And okay would be married, no singles such too much. Women habitually another — when to communicate to the man lazy and he immediately drags in a hotel. And now more and more often the opposite: to communicate not lazy, from morning lalalala the Internet and telephone, and meetings evaded under various pretexts.

But men dinamiki?What they want?

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The people these men are called a rude word "drochery". If it is about sex, talk a lot, and realize in no hurry. Or communicate from morning to night of my life, but in the real world don't go — it's a different kind of frustration. To communicate to the man like to talk want to talk about themselves,to get attention, interest, to pour out joy and pain, to Express thoughts and relationships in the real world he doesn't needand even Wirth is not needed. This kind of men women are still somehow understand. "Like" the friend zone.

But dinamiki women surprised and outraged. In messagere he wants, all burning and trembling loves this way and that, both there, and here, and when she already agreed, and even insists, is lost. Women suspect the Dolly setup. Mockery. But no, it's not. The man has no plans to scoff, he says earnestly. I want, says you. And it's true. Physically you wants, not Platonic. There, said, want, here. And true, too. Kissing you for two hours here and there, and then this here. All this he vividly presents the fun of it gets, especially when the side with the female, there is live response: Oh, yeah, class, let's quickly see you, darling. From this feedback the images come alive and become more realistic, and fun sharper.
Women are also good in their naivety. Recently there was a letter where a middle-aged man wrote to the woman that will deal with her day love without interruption. She took it and came, clamped it in the corner, let's say. Of course, he had business there — football critical days. He is ready day love to engage in messagere, but this room is not ready.

By the way, even if he is ready for exploits, otpahal day on you, he may disappear. Face in the dirt to strike not like it, but to repeat this marathon feel like. Enough once. Keep in mind and do not be greedy. You never know what he promised in the virtual?

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In a state of strong sexual arousal anterior insular cortex is almost turned off. Sometimes it seems that women who are so genuinely outraged that they've promised three boxes, never experienced arousal. Or a little bit. Otherwise I would have visneli that in this state, the head does not think and to promise can, in principle, anything. It's a drug. Real endogenous the drug and changing States of consciousness.

Especially because usually it's mutual chatter, the man thinks the woman is also in a rush to talk about it, she also gets pleasure as he is.So why break the buzz and tell that all this fun? Moreover, neither such a man is not sure this is exactly fun. While his cock was steaming in his hand he in a trance, he is ready to absolutely everything.
But come tomorrow with a scheduled meeting and he was not before. It excites Wirth, a safe space where he is relaxed and open, and meeting in real life is fraught with lots of difficulties and troubles. And it is not to categorically reject it. He simply endures. Until the moment when he's in the mood to meet in real life. Maybe I will someday, but maybe not. He does not know.
Therefore, women who are male like (photo, questionnaire, communication) and have noticed that the Virt he goes willingly, and the meeting breaks, needs to learn a few rules: (or leave him alone)1. Don't get mad at him.There are now very many. Yes, it is an easy deviation, and even addiction to the virtual world. Switch to real sex with it, but it will take some time and understanding of the partner, need preadaptation, a new habit.

2. No offense.You got nothing to do with. He did not deceive, did not mind, he just came out of the trance and began to doubt that he so much want to communicate with you in a cafe after all, "what happened" in the virtual.

3. Do not try to Wirth long. A little warmed up and get out for his urgent business. Make an appointment in real life. Go before he will promise you a bunch of things, then you will afraid that will not pull indicated by the bar.

4.Be a person and not a role. Your "OO, yeah" can give any woman, women in Virt — pigs for his sexual projections. Talk not only about sex.Put him in an interesting place where it should not be just "responsible for the market".

5. If it is rescheduled, don't make him a reprimand, you are not yet married. Agree on new. From the beginning expect it will take, plan like "if we could meet". Mind your own business, communicate with other men, while no relationship in the real world.

6.Don't expect anything from the meeting that it was stated in the virtual. Tell him before the meeting that Wirth is one thing, but in the real world you want completely different: location and not rough in the suspension. It will switch to the normal state. published 

P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©

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