5 Questions That Will Save Your Relationship

Happy couples know that for a relationship to flourish and make both partners happy, you have to work hard. If you don’t, you may be trapped in a “lazy” relationship that just exists instead of flourishing.

To learn how to solve problems, and not hide them under the carpet, psychologist Yaroslav Samoilov suggests asking a loved one several questions from time to time.







This question can hook the right strings in the soul of your partner and encourage them to talk about their desires. Perhaps it will be such a sweet request as a kiss in the morning, which will charge a good mood for the whole day. Or, for example, a request for assistance in the household. Listen to your wishes and you will see thatThe relationship will grow stronger and stronger after each such instance of mutual aid.







Many people prefer to close their eyes to negative nuances, so as not to aggravate a difficult situation. But problems accumulate, and at some point there will be so many of them that a whole explosion of negative emotions can occur.

The best way out of the situation is to discuss all the accumulated problems before it is too late.. It may not be easy to tell the truth, but it is necessary: listen to each other carefully, ask forgiveness if you feel guilty.







Very important question! Many couples are ashamed of this topic in conversations and do not know where to start, but in vain: if there are accumulated problems or questions, sooner or later they will come to the surface and affect the relationship.

Perhaps you should approach this topic a little more delicately and ask what your partner would like to change. These conversations will take your relationship to a whole new level.







In a strong relationship, it is customary to enjoy victories and overcome defeats together. Don’t be afraid to ask what’s bothering your loved one, listen to them and feel free to share what’s bothering you personally.. Perhaps you can find a way out of the situation, but at least you will provide invaluable support and help. Anything that falls under the category “How can I be useful to you in your business?” adds depth to the relationship between a man and a woman.







Our individual needs can change from day to day. Perhaps it was a difficult week at work and your partner needs care and attention more than ever. Or, on the contrary, the career goes uphill and requires more time, so you need to concentrate properly and briefly “go into yourself”.

As you learn to support each other emotionally and talk sincerely about your experiences, your relationship will become deeper and more trusting.

Photo from the preview of 20TH CENTURY FOX
Author Yaroslav Samoylov


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