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Little tricks that will give you an edge in communicating with others
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What would we do in life, one of the most useful skills will always be the ability to chat with friends and strangers. Some unspoken rules of conduct that facilitate interaction with others, known to us all, though sometimes we do not give them due importance. Some of the tricks of the communication, we very advise you to learn not to lose face in any situation.
When you call the person in which you are interested, don't hide your emotions
Don't forget this simple rule. The emotion is contagious. Why do you think video Pharrell Williams – “Happy” got so many hits and got so many positive reviews?
Joy and excitement is what helps people to escape from boring everyday life. Never forget that.
(Can use reverse. Show frustration when someone upsets, causing people to regret their negligence).
Want to build good relationships and earn respect? Copy the movements of sobesednika fairly common way to earn respect from a person who has a lot of weight in society.
For example, you see a very important person surrounded by other people. He is the center of attention and he clearly likes. How can you be the same? You need to make friends with him!
The best way to earn his respect is to copy his movements and the General tone of his speech. If he is open and speaks with excitement and joy, it is not necessary to approach him with a sullen face and crossed arms, intending to refute any of his words.
Walk up to him with the same emotional attitude and demonstrate him exactly the same openness as he himself demonstrates.
When someone offends you, ignore or laugh over the offender. Never lose your calm. Keep your emotions under controlpanelitem is always there. The more you feed their sense, the more they hate you. Do not lose your calm. This is the best way of dealing with offenders.
Stand up straight, always look straight in the eye and try to keep your hands warm — Always keep a straight posture and walk with kind of a born leader. This will allow others to feel your confidence and they will automatically respect you.
— Take your hands out of your pockets. If you don't know what else you can do with them, better put them on the chest. It is certainly better than keeping them in his pockets.
— Keep your hands warm. If you have a warm handshake hand, it is likely that you will become an object of desire for a closer acquaintance. Suggest to wash our hands under warm water, so they're always warm.
— You've probably heard this a thousand and one times. Here's a thousand second. Never lose eye contact! Loss of eye contact is the same as the loss of confidence. One small trick when meeting someone is to focus on the color of the eyes and smile. The eyes are the mirror of the soul, therefore, prolonged eye contact will show that you are a confident person.
PS: But sometimes the eyes need to take, too close and long look in the eyes is too creepy.
The effect of Benjamin Franklinpiat Benjamin Franklin – this is an amazing find psychologists.
People are likely to provide a service to the man whom he had rendered service to this, and not the one who did him a favor. As well as people who'd hurt another, is more likely to be ready to harm again, than the victim to return the favor.
This finding seems incredible, isn't it? You can use it, asking someone to do you a small favor, and then asking what you really need. This person will most likely agree to render you this little service, and thanks to cognitive dissonance, his brain will judge that he likes you enough to complete your service at all. Sometimes this trick is called the “foot in the door.”
Don't be afraid to touch sobesedovaniya to the shoulder or the knee of the other person contributes to the formation of emotional and physical connection. This works especially well in moments of laughter, joy and excitement. If you feel uncomfortable touching other people, convince your brain in reverse, following paragraph 12.
Lifehack doors in letseatat the effect is the opposite effect of Benjamin Franklin. Ask about some incredibly large and complex service that is not likely to be satisfied. And then ask what you wanted in the first place. People are likely to agree to provide this service to you.
Make a request to voprosnik doesn't like to feel forced to do something he does not want. Carefully formulating his request, you can decorate every thing as if your victim herself came to this decision.
Homeless people who say “if you want, donate”, usually get more money than those who simply ask. The same usually works with the musical groups who offer “to pay, but only if you want” for his music. They know that you are free you can download all their music from the Internet, so they offer to pay you as much as you see fit.
A slightly more aggressive technique is also possible in some cases
This is a classic trade manipulation, which can be used in many situations. Instead of asking the person whether he wants to do something, just take it for granted that he already agrees. Of course, you can't force anyone to do anything, but the right question might push them towards the right decisions: “You want to donate 5 or 10 dollars?”
Now, instead of people just saying Yes or no, he will actively refuse to perform your request as pathetic nehochuha.
If you work in a bar or any other place where you have to work directly with clients...Hang a mirror directly behind her. When you will approach an angry customer and you can see your reflection in the mirror, he will likely calm down. No one likes to look bad.
Chewing gum will help to overcome nervousness the point of view of evolution, our brain thinks when we eat, we are out of danger, so chewing helps to soothe excited nerves.published
Source: mixstuff.ru/archives/75696
What would we do in life, one of the most useful skills will always be the ability to chat with friends and strangers. Some unspoken rules of conduct that facilitate interaction with others, known to us all, though sometimes we do not give them due importance. Some of the tricks of the communication, we very advise you to learn not to lose face in any situation.
When you call the person in which you are interested, don't hide your emotions
Don't forget this simple rule. The emotion is contagious. Why do you think video Pharrell Williams – “Happy” got so many hits and got so many positive reviews?
Joy and excitement is what helps people to escape from boring everyday life. Never forget that.
(Can use reverse. Show frustration when someone upsets, causing people to regret their negligence).
Want to build good relationships and earn respect? Copy the movements of sobesednika fairly common way to earn respect from a person who has a lot of weight in society.
For example, you see a very important person surrounded by other people. He is the center of attention and he clearly likes. How can you be the same? You need to make friends with him!
The best way to earn his respect is to copy his movements and the General tone of his speech. If he is open and speaks with excitement and joy, it is not necessary to approach him with a sullen face and crossed arms, intending to refute any of his words.
Walk up to him with the same emotional attitude and demonstrate him exactly the same openness as he himself demonstrates.
When someone offends you, ignore or laugh over the offender. Never lose your calm. Keep your emotions under controlpanelitem is always there. The more you feed their sense, the more they hate you. Do not lose your calm. This is the best way of dealing with offenders.
Stand up straight, always look straight in the eye and try to keep your hands warm — Always keep a straight posture and walk with kind of a born leader. This will allow others to feel your confidence and they will automatically respect you.
— Take your hands out of your pockets. If you don't know what else you can do with them, better put them on the chest. It is certainly better than keeping them in his pockets.
— Keep your hands warm. If you have a warm handshake hand, it is likely that you will become an object of desire for a closer acquaintance. Suggest to wash our hands under warm water, so they're always warm.
— You've probably heard this a thousand and one times. Here's a thousand second. Never lose eye contact! Loss of eye contact is the same as the loss of confidence. One small trick when meeting someone is to focus on the color of the eyes and smile. The eyes are the mirror of the soul, therefore, prolonged eye contact will show that you are a confident person.
PS: But sometimes the eyes need to take, too close and long look in the eyes is too creepy.
The effect of Benjamin Franklinpiat Benjamin Franklin – this is an amazing find psychologists.
People are likely to provide a service to the man whom he had rendered service to this, and not the one who did him a favor. As well as people who'd hurt another, is more likely to be ready to harm again, than the victim to return the favor.
This finding seems incredible, isn't it? You can use it, asking someone to do you a small favor, and then asking what you really need. This person will most likely agree to render you this little service, and thanks to cognitive dissonance, his brain will judge that he likes you enough to complete your service at all. Sometimes this trick is called the “foot in the door.”
Don't be afraid to touch sobesedovaniya to the shoulder or the knee of the other person contributes to the formation of emotional and physical connection. This works especially well in moments of laughter, joy and excitement. If you feel uncomfortable touching other people, convince your brain in reverse, following paragraph 12.
Lifehack doors in letseatat the effect is the opposite effect of Benjamin Franklin. Ask about some incredibly large and complex service that is not likely to be satisfied. And then ask what you wanted in the first place. People are likely to agree to provide this service to you.
Make a request to voprosnik doesn't like to feel forced to do something he does not want. Carefully formulating his request, you can decorate every thing as if your victim herself came to this decision.
Homeless people who say “if you want, donate”, usually get more money than those who simply ask. The same usually works with the musical groups who offer “to pay, but only if you want” for his music. They know that you are free you can download all their music from the Internet, so they offer to pay you as much as you see fit.
A slightly more aggressive technique is also possible in some cases
This is a classic trade manipulation, which can be used in many situations. Instead of asking the person whether he wants to do something, just take it for granted that he already agrees. Of course, you can't force anyone to do anything, but the right question might push them towards the right decisions: “You want to donate 5 or 10 dollars?”
Now, instead of people just saying Yes or no, he will actively refuse to perform your request as pathetic nehochuha.
If you work in a bar or any other place where you have to work directly with clients...Hang a mirror directly behind her. When you will approach an angry customer and you can see your reflection in the mirror, he will likely calm down. No one likes to look bad.
Chewing gum will help to overcome nervousness the point of view of evolution, our brain thinks when we eat, we are out of danger, so chewing helps to soothe excited nerves.published
Source: mixstuff.ru/archives/75696
