What kind of marriage can be called a failure? Bashny.Net

Often have to read and hear: “After the first failed marriage...”, and then follows the list of disappointments, psychological limitations and complexes that have arisen at the person. Where did come from: if the marriage ended, so he was unsuccessful?





Maybe he just did was very successful, but not a lifetime, but five, ten, twenty-five years. Most likely, the legs grow out of social beliefs that the right to have one marriage for life, and everything else is failure. But such social expectations – it is a utopia, a Mirage. Couples who passed through life with one partner, very little. And it is not clear whether so rosy in their relationship if there's love, friendship or at least respect.

In my opinion, a bad marriage is when both suffered, tormented each other, tearing the soul and nerves, made insults, humiliation and so on. And when quite a good life, with mutual help and support, peacefully and comfortably for some time, but one day found that they speak different languages, have different values, different started to look at the important things in life, it means that a good marriage came to an end.

We grow up, change, go through different stages of personal development, and that's fine. Rather, a more normal life at a certain interval to choose a person up with you accordingly level of values and life scenario than to pull former partner somewhere against his will. Here begins the mutual removal of the brain.

The development of relationships and marriage is a two-way street. And if one rips apart something vaguely or clearly not enough, he desperately maybe in relations to, and the other is this dull, or, worse, intolerable, then the best thing is to put an end to the once successful marriage and begin to build new relationships. Life is one, and any material and social benefits at the end of the road you don't explain yourself, what the hell was suffering instead of joy.

You know, it's better in the life of three of a successful marriage than one “and where do go?”. published

Author: Lilia Ahremchik

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