The smarter the woman, the more likely alone

Why men don't want to be with women with whom they can talk and argue? When did the aversion to strong and intelligent women?

It's a cruel world... full of awkward first dates, bad sex and limited capacity to achieve orgasm. Women now associate the risk of first dates with the dangers of traveling to the Arctic tundra. Where it is cold, uncomfortable and a lot of chances that you'll die before you get a fire.


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After years of these terrible journeys and great knowledge, we can say that this time we are a little better prepared. We learned tips, tricks and lessons that you can learn only by living them firsthand, quickly instructing the crooks, men who are just trying to deceive us again and again.

We change, we change clothes, hairstyle and style to fit the one for whom it is intended, but there is something that we can't change, and it often plays with us a cruel joke.

Unfortunately, women are often hampered by the intellect. Because for all the smart and educated women were really what they feel... intelligent women are more likely to be lonely.

The famous saying "ignorance is bliss" does not accurately covers a wide range of what women feel as they sit alone Friday night, as they have no one to discuss Nietzsche or read Proust.

It does not reduce the pain when parents ask about the guy and why can't she find a good guy.

Saying it would be better if would be: "ignorant women are men, and smart women do not feel bliss."

But why? Why men don't want to be with women with whom they can talk and argue? When did the aversion to strong and intelligent women?

In one of the articles "The Wire," financial reporter, John Carney, gave one explanation of this phenomenon: "successful men Dating less successful women not because they want a "stupid woman", but because they want "someone who donates their priorities for them."

Basically, they want someone who will not think about a career until you think about the dinner and the fun.

They need quite a dumb woman, so she could prioritize, but unfortunately, these women much more than women smart and sensible.

There are many women who are willing to devote their lives to men who do not want to challenge them, fight with them and don't want to see them as equal.

Again, deciding what you are a woman, it's like the choice between a rock and a hard place. If you are stupid, you will not be taken seriously, but if you are smart, you will be taken too seriously. All women are wielding a two-handed sword. Beautiful, attractive woman doesn't have to be smart, and women with a strong character is considered as a threat to masculinity.

A study conducted with 121 British participants, have led to results that women with high intelligence in a female/male relations were identified as problematic.

According to forecasts, their intellect is causing problems in the relationship. However, the high level of intelligence of men does not cause problems, it is desirable.

These cultural stereotypes and gender bias do not impede women to be considered equal. Rational and educated women are ignored and punished for intelligence.

Those women who teach you, show you and help you grow and become better, in fact better than those girls in shorts that show too much body and high heels.

Of course, there are a lot of smart women with Boyfriends. It is not suitable for women with the guys, but to appease the nagging, the pain of all smart women, men are constantly invited them to dinner, spend a great time, and then decide that they are not worse work.

First, actually, it's the worst It's an epidemic generation of today. All women are immersed in their standards and are looking for a man who appreciates them. They expect big things, what would you like, not just "it's good for me."

Where's the man who has to understand you? Where's the man who needs to shock and support?

In the article "Daily Mail" the Minister of universities David Willetts argues that"successful women will marry less skilled partners than they are – and perhaps will choose those men who will support their career and not to support financially".

Judging by the fact that men do not develop at the same rate with which women increase education, there is an uneven scale. Women are smarter and men are not stronger than support them.

Most men would be better in the relationship. Men accustomed to the fact that a woman is always worse, and when she gets better – she becomes a threat.

The number of women graduates now exceeds the number of men with higher education. Men in this competition are not ready to be in second place, this is the reason for the loneliness of women.

You forgot to eat the whole pie Intellectual ambitions breed contempt. The neglect of love to the guys age and that you will not get a Mrs. degree. Neglect in College, when focusing attention on learning, not on finding a guy, refusing to spend her nights in bars and clubs.

Unfortunately, for all the women who thought that the man will appear later, other women used the youth and snapped Boyfriends and husbands, while those focused on your career.

Women went to College with the intention to get married, slowly but surely leading men among those who went there to study.

This phenomenon only increases the likelihood that a woman will leave the College. She will be disappointed and will start to work harder to achieve professional success due to the lack of love to fill the void. Dr. Alex banner in the Huffington Post explains that women compensate for their bad experience with a successful professional career, and this only increases the gap.

Big minds are like big balls You can be sweet, sensitive and insecure, but your mind is threatening you. You may not be Brawn and a big CL*t, but men will see you as a competitor.

You scare them. Most smart women are not pompous, not arrogant, but men think the opposite. They believe that a woman is going to fix them, to overshadow and make me feel useless.

In an article published in "The Daily Beast", Dr. Eileen Pollack explains,"All these contradictions in our culture designed to you were both smart and sexy. I don't think that most defies that, we just accept that."

If a woman is too intelligent or self-sufficient, it is regarded as"material is not for Dating". If she's witty and competitive, she is seen as a complex and powerful.

Society teaches women that if they are smart and funny, then they will not meet and will meet empty head and a hard heart. published 

Author: Lauren Martin, P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! © Join us at Facebook , Vkontakte, Odnoklassniki

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