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How to scare off all decent men within a kilometer radius
How many relationships collapse because of our female obsession with the beloved object!
And how many relationships do not begin, because this very object disappears imperceptibly, sensing danger.
And in the end, we are left at a broken trough, feeling lonely, unhappy, abandoned or just disliked women. We cry in the vest to our mother or best friend, we complain about men who have completely transferred to our time, and most importantly, we become obsessed with self-pity, injustice on a global scale.
And the fault is not a bad fate and not at all men who did not appreciate us, but ours. Cycling! It is she who, with invisible energy waves, scares away all worthy men within a kilometer radius around, and if someone gets into our networks, she immediately tries to escape, feeling how our obsession squeezes his throat. And strangles, strangles.
It would seem that it may be easier to just stop getting stuck. It'll be all right then. And relationships will work out, and personal happiness.
But the problem is that no girl, a woman who fixates on a man, realizes it. Such a pattern of behavior arises in her life either from great self-doubt, or not realizing her individual value, loss of self-esteem, dislike of herself.
So first of all, we need to talk about, How do you know you're fixated on a man?
Let's look at three options:
1) if you are lonely,
2) if you are in a relationship
(3) if you are married.
So, if you're single and:
✓ You are suffering because you are alone.
✓ Feeling flawed because all your friends have been married for a long time, and you can’t even meet someone “normal”
✓ Every time you go for a walk or meet a friend, you look for him.
✓ You always think that you are wrong, that you are still alone.
✓ You are afraid that you may never meet your love.
You try on almost everyone you know for the role of a potential husband.
So, the diagnosis of "obsession" touched you, too.
If you are already in a relationship and:
✓ Always worrying why he doesn’t call.
✓ And in the end you still call him yourself, offer to meet;
✓ You want to hear him say, “I’ve missed you.”
✓ Want to start a conversation about the seriousness of your relationship, his intentions, plans and so on.
✓ You step over yourself at some point in order to preserve the relationship.
✓ You prefer to close your eyes to his behavior that humiliates you in order not to be alone.
So you're stuck in this man.
If you're married and:
Constantly controlling your husband.
You think you should spend all your free time together.
Resent him when he just wants to be with himself or, worse, to meet friends.
Restrict his freedom, constantly forbid something.
You do not have your own interests, but live only by them.
So you're fixated on your husband!
What do we do?
You need to direct the energy that you focus on the man, on yourself. Take care of your development, improvement. But even that's not the point. The main thing is to awaken your feminine nature, love for yourself, the ability to enjoy life! Realize their value, uniqueness and uniqueness.
Don't make yourself proud, no! Just to be a decent woman for a decent man.
Find your hidden talents and abilities, start to be interested in the world around you. It is not just about men, though.
And when a woman changes the focus of her attention, stops fixating on a man, a miracle happens. It blooms like the most beautiful flower, fragrant with a pleasant aroma.
And if she is lonely, men flock to this smell to eat it. People who can appreciate this smell. The most worthy.
If she is in a relationship, then her chosen one, drunk with such fragrance, will do everything so that she becomes his lawful wife and the mother of his future children.
If she is married, her husband will fall in love with her again.
It is only necessary to change the focus of your excessive attention from a man to yourself and the world around!
Author: Yulia Kravchenko
P.S. And remember, just changing our consumption – together we change the world!
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Source: www.twiy.ru/sos-zaciklennost-na-muzhchinax/
And how many relationships do not begin, because this very object disappears imperceptibly, sensing danger.
And in the end, we are left at a broken trough, feeling lonely, unhappy, abandoned or just disliked women. We cry in the vest to our mother or best friend, we complain about men who have completely transferred to our time, and most importantly, we become obsessed with self-pity, injustice on a global scale.
And the fault is not a bad fate and not at all men who did not appreciate us, but ours. Cycling! It is she who, with invisible energy waves, scares away all worthy men within a kilometer radius around, and if someone gets into our networks, she immediately tries to escape, feeling how our obsession squeezes his throat. And strangles, strangles.
It would seem that it may be easier to just stop getting stuck. It'll be all right then. And relationships will work out, and personal happiness.
But the problem is that no girl, a woman who fixates on a man, realizes it. Such a pattern of behavior arises in her life either from great self-doubt, or not realizing her individual value, loss of self-esteem, dislike of herself.
So first of all, we need to talk about, How do you know you're fixated on a man?
Let's look at three options:
1) if you are lonely,
2) if you are in a relationship
(3) if you are married.
So, if you're single and:
✓ You are suffering because you are alone.
✓ Feeling flawed because all your friends have been married for a long time, and you can’t even meet someone “normal”
✓ Every time you go for a walk or meet a friend, you look for him.
✓ You always think that you are wrong, that you are still alone.
✓ You are afraid that you may never meet your love.
You try on almost everyone you know for the role of a potential husband.
So, the diagnosis of "obsession" touched you, too.
If you are already in a relationship and:
✓ Always worrying why he doesn’t call.
✓ And in the end you still call him yourself, offer to meet;
✓ You want to hear him say, “I’ve missed you.”
✓ Want to start a conversation about the seriousness of your relationship, his intentions, plans and so on.
✓ You step over yourself at some point in order to preserve the relationship.
✓ You prefer to close your eyes to his behavior that humiliates you in order not to be alone.
So you're stuck in this man.
If you're married and:
Constantly controlling your husband.
You think you should spend all your free time together.
Resent him when he just wants to be with himself or, worse, to meet friends.
Restrict his freedom, constantly forbid something.
You do not have your own interests, but live only by them.
So you're fixated on your husband!
What do we do?
You need to direct the energy that you focus on the man, on yourself. Take care of your development, improvement. But even that's not the point. The main thing is to awaken your feminine nature, love for yourself, the ability to enjoy life! Realize their value, uniqueness and uniqueness.
Don't make yourself proud, no! Just to be a decent woman for a decent man.
Find your hidden talents and abilities, start to be interested in the world around you. It is not just about men, though.
And when a woman changes the focus of her attention, stops fixating on a man, a miracle happens. It blooms like the most beautiful flower, fragrant with a pleasant aroma.
And if she is lonely, men flock to this smell to eat it. People who can appreciate this smell. The most worthy.
If she is in a relationship, then her chosen one, drunk with such fragrance, will do everything so that she becomes his lawful wife and the mother of his future children.
If she is married, her husband will fall in love with her again.
It is only necessary to change the focus of your excessive attention from a man to yourself and the world around!
Author: Yulia Kravchenko
P.S. And remember, just changing our consumption – together we change the world!
Join us on Facebook, VKontakte, Odnoklassniki
Source: www.twiy.ru/sos-zaciklennost-na-muzhchinax/
