To live a rich and happy life is not so simple, and certainly no one can guarantee it to you, but difficult doesn't mean impossible, if you have enough determination and willpower. What's more – it's worth it.
Remember this when you read the list of harsh truths and I hope that at least some of them will help you to Wake up from the slumber and motivates you for change. To make your life a great extent can only be your life:
1. No one can give you an accurate answer to the question how to become happy and successful.
Many important questions can only give you themselves, using the personal experience and rethinking. So enough to listen to companies about what you are supposed to want and start to listen to yourself. And once you do, sooner or later you will hear the answers to these questions. One day, in the midst of this complete chaos of the world, you just stop in place and say to yourself "ENOUGH!". This moment will be a turning point on the path to happiness and success.2. The fact that we are doing something right, doesn't mean it's actually worth doing.
It is always better to move slowly in the right direction than quickly in the wrong. Ask yourself whether it brings you what you're doing, to the chosen target. Be aware that it is more important to do the right thing than doing things right. And there's nothing worse than skillfully to do something, for which to take is not worth it.3. The most unfortunate people – the ones most worried about someone else's opinion.
You don't have to prove anything to anyone. Draw from the opinions of others information, but don't let them limit you.4. The people you've surrounded yourself with, I can help you, and to hurt.
Surround yourself with positive people, people that have a positive impact on your life. Let them serve you the invisible but constant reminders that you should always strive for the best.5. Honesty and integrity will not add popularity.
But it will help you make the right friends and acquaintances.6. Perfection is unattainable.
If you decide to share with the world their stories, ideas, talents and gifts only when you reach perfection, no one ever did you not hear.7. The feeling of comfort is the greatest killer of dreams.
You can be or the sybarite, or brave, but not both.8. You cannot change what you refuse to deal with.
If you want to achieve something new, you first have to stop doing something old. If you want to get something you never had, you have to do something that you never did. And you will never go on a journey until you know where you are aiming. Don't be afraid to start all over again – if only it can lead you to the dream.9. We all have to make decisions that ultimately affects your life.
Between what happened and what still happens, encased your choice. You are not a product of your circumstances, and the results of your decisions. And don't let your fear determine your future.10. The only way between "want" and "have" called "to do."
Alternatives a deliberate, persistent action yet simply no.11. The only person who can turn your dreams into reality is you.
That is why they are worth striving for.12.The winners become winners not because they who authorizes something, but because they so decide.
Promise yourself something wonderful, and then do everything you can to achieve it. You were born to be a successful person. However, to find success, you must plan, expect, and work on it every day. Success is not something secret and available only to a few. Success is a direction, a process and a way of life.13. If the achievement of anything you shouldn't, it has no value.
So pay the price. Good work, and enjoy the result. Much better to be tired from meaningful work than tired from doing nothing. Invest in life a little effort, and it will become what you want it to be.14. Problems is part of any path to success.
The harder the path, the better the reward at the end. If you have problems. This means that in your life there is progress. You will learn things and learn something new. The only people who have no problem – those that do nothing.15. Often we occupy all my free time with petty problems.
Stop. No, seriously. Small negativity in your life doesn't require your around the clock attention. Better think about what brings you joy, about love, and about your purpose. Direct your energy to the positive side of your life, and its ability. Take a step in the right direction. It often happens that the timely implementation of the good opportunities is the only way to achieve significant results in life or work. And certainly this method is not a permanent solution to small problems.16. Mistakes are inevitable, and even necessary.
A mistake should be your teacher, not my enemy. A mistake is a lesson, not a loss. This is a temporary, necessary deviation from the path, not a dead end.17. What we want in life and what we get are rarely one and the same.
In the end, after all is said and done, you will receive exactly what was supposed to appear in your life, and what should not be there, will disappear. And remember, often the greatest gifts of life are not as they were presented to us.18. Now you are exactly where you need.
Even if your location is not quite what you want. Even if you have problems that need solutions. Even if you want to start all over again. Not one speck of experience, no step is superfluous.19. You can't change the past, but can poison yourself now, too worry about the future.
Live in the present. Focus on it. Well, tomorrow will come in its turn.20. When you spend your time worrying and fanning out of molehills, you're just wasting the power of your imagination, creating in your mind that you do not need.
What else is there to say?21. It is impossible to live a happy life with a negative attitude.
Perhaps the most underrated trait of all successful people I have ever met. Positivity. It's your attitude to life determines how you live it.22. Life is constantly, and often unpredictably, changing.
Yes, life is changing, but you too. And if you are pulling in all directions hand, you don't control, find a couple of minutes to rest and to understand in which direction lies your life purpose. Find the courage to change when life requires determination to bring change to the end and the belief that sooner or later everything will be exactly as it should be.
In addition to love nobodyThe elusive feeling that everything will go like that: Foresight or programming
Sometimes life can be very difficult. Many things you just cannot control – so let them go. Don't let them interfere with what you can and should control. Be positive. Focus on what you can do today to get closer to your dreams and do it! Not repent. Don't look back. Just live and go forward.
Yes, we don't know what lies beyond the horizon, but that only makes the journey more exciting – that's what makes today the most important day in your life. Don't waste either!
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