That's why you can't argue when you're angry

We never have to argue, if you feel angry. This truth everyone knows, but it so happens that during a particularly heated debate we lose control over emotions and are unable properly to end the conflict.

The website gives three compelling evidence why we should not tie the dispute, if you are angry.

1. You think that everything is biased against you





Because of the peculiarities of the functioning of the brain in a state of anger, a person loses control not only over emotions, but over their beliefs. Psychologists say that if you are in a bad mood, you will perceive any words or gestures of your opponent as an extra way to offend or hurt you. All this leads to the fact that you will more and no reason to yell at him and finally quarrel with him.

2. You unconsciously provoke his interlocutor





During numerous studies, scientists have also proven that if you're angry that other people are also starting to feel angry. This fact only further increases the likelihood that you will not be able to resolve the conflict properly, being in rashawnna condition.

3. You will not be able to hear his opponent





Anger dulls your rationality, and therefore, your opinion about the interlocutor will be much worse than it actually is. In such a situation you will not able to objectively assess your partner and see his best qualities. If during an argument you will perceive it as intelligent and charismatic person, the problem does not seem to be too serious, and you will be able to solve it faster and more efficiently.

Source psychologytoday.com
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