What do you think - do not you think. And there is Bashny.Net

You know, I think that the relationship is very important to focus not on the formal signs of well-being and sense of self.

Our brain is definitely monitors everything that happens and is even an unofficial count, that in whose favor the case against. There are the facts: for example, the number of calls, messages, signs and symptoms of attention grooming, care and support, warmth and participation. All this is, and it affects our sense of the demand for the other person. But these manifestations may be formal. There is something, but it's something we perceive as unemotional made, because it is necessary, without heart. Here they are - the feeling

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Brain, unlike consciousness accepts all incoming information. He once it sorts, groups, saves, passes through the filters of perception, and gives us the conscious part of the psyche. From there we draw conclusions and inferences, make decisions, and hang tags. But! The brain knows everything. What did not get into the consciousness, it remains in the unconscious part of us and perfectly controlled from there.

You do not know why, but you have something you can do to his own surprise. Or suddenly appear any doubts from scratch, it would seem, location. Or discomfort during intercourse. Or a sudden, no reasoned irritation. Or fear - for no apparent reason

. The reasons are not visible. That is, they are not perceived by the consciousness of the blocks and filters, but they are. Not the tone, not the reaction, not the words, not the action of ...

Or, on the contrary, the words, the actions, those reactions ... A little bit, a little bit. You have not noticed. But already inside - is unclear where the heat holding, awe, sympathy ...

What do you think on the level of feelings, do not you think. That's right.

Believe yourself. Listen to yourself.

© Lily Ahremchik