Always pay attention to what you have, instead of regret what you have lost.
Writer and blogger Mark Chernov believes that there is always something for which to be grateful. And no matter how good or bad you feel, you have to wake up every day and be grateful for life, because someone, somewhere, desperately fighting for her.
The truth is that happiness - is not the absence of problems but the ability to deal with them. Imagine all the amazing things that could cover your mind, if he had not been so busy with your struggle.
Website has decided to recall some tips to inspire you when you need it most.
1. Pain is part of life rosta.Inogda closes the door, because it's time to move. And it's - well, because we often do not start to move if the circumstances do not compel us. When the going gets tough, remind yourself that no pain does not come without a purpose. Move from what hurts you, but never forget the lesson that it teaches you. What you fight, does not mean that you fail. Every great success requires that present a worthy fight. Good takes time. Stay patient and confident. Everything will be alright; probably not a moment, but in the end everything will be ...
Remember that there are two kinds of pain: pain that hurt and pain that changes you. When you go through life, rather than resist it, you help her develop.
2. Everything in life is vremennym.Vsegda when the rain comes, you know it will end. Every time you hurt, the wound heals. After dark there is always light - remind you of this every morning, but nevertheless it often seems that the night will last forever. It will not happen. Nothing lasts forever.
Thus, if all is well now, enjoy it. It will not last forever. If things are bad, do not worry because this is not going to last forever. The fact that life is not easy at the moment, does not mean that you can not laugh. The fact that something bothers you, does not mean that you can not smile. Every moment gives you a fresh start and a new ending. Every second, you get a second chance. Just use it.
3. Excitement and complaints do not izmenyat.Te who complain most of all, seek the least. It is always better to try to do something more, and fail, than to try to do well by doing nothing. Nothing is over, if you lose; it's over, if you really just complaining. If you believe in something, keep trying.
And no matter what happens in the end, remember that true happiness begins to arrive only when you stop complaining about your problems and start to be grateful for all the problems that you do not have.
4. Your scars are the symbols of your sily.Nikogda not ashamed of the scars left behind by your life. A scar means that the pain is gone and the wound was delayed. This means that you have overcome the pain, learned a lesson, become stronger and more advanced. The scar is a tattoo triumph. Do not let the scars hold you hostage. Do not let them force you to live in fear. Begin to consider them as a sign of strength.
Rumi once said: "A wound in the light enters you." Nothing could be closer to the truth. From there suffering the strongest souls; the most influential people in this big world marked by scars. Look at the scars on his slogan, "Yes! I did it! I survived, and I have the scars to prove it! And now I have the chance to become even stronger ».
5. Every little battle - a step vpered.V life patience is not equal to expectations; it is the ability to maintain a good mood, working hard on your dreams. Therefore, if you are going to try, go to the end. Otherwise there's no point starting. This could mean the loss of stability and comfort for a while and maybe even your mind. Probably, you will have is not what you are used to, or do not sleep as much as you used to, for weeks on end. This may mean a change in your comfort zone. This may mean sacrificing relationships and all that is familiar to you. This may mean the appearance of ridicule. This may mean loneliness. Loneliness is nevertheless a gift that makes many things possible. You get the space they need. Everything else - test your endurance, to how you really want to achieve.
And, if you want this, you do that, despite the setbacks and disagreements. And with every step you'll feel better than you can imagine. You will realize that the struggle is not a barrier in the way it is - the way.
6. The negative reaction of other people - this is not your problema.Budte sure when bad surrounds you. Smile when others try to beat you. This is an easy way to maintain your own enthusiasm. When other people will say about you poor, continue to be themselves. Never let someone else talk to change you. You can not take things too much to heart, even if it seems personal. Do not think that people do something for you. They're doing something for yourself.
First of all, never change in order to make an impression on someone who says you're not good enough. Me if it makes you better and will lead you to a brighter future. People will say no matter what you do or how well you do it. Worry about yourself, not about the opinions of others. If you believe in something, do not be afraid to fight for it. Great strength comes from overcoming the impossible.
7. What would happen proizoydet.Vy gains strength when waive cries and complaints, and start to smile and appreciate your life. There are blessings that are hidden in every struggle you face, but you must be willing to open your heart and mind to see them. You can not force things to happen. You can only try. At some point you have to let go and allow the situation to what is intended to happen.
Love your life, trust intuition, risk, lose and find happiness, learn through experience. It's a long trip. You have to stop worrying, ask questions and to question at any time. Laugh, enjoy every moment of their lives. You may not know exactly where you intended to go, but you will eventually come back to where you should be.
8. Just keep dvizhenie.Ne afraid to get angry. Do not be afraid to fall in love again. Do not let the cracks in his heart turn into scars. Understand that the power increases every day. Understand that courage is beautiful. Search in your heart that makes others smile. Remember that you do not need many people in my life, so do not try to have more "friends." Be strong when it is hard. Remember that the universe always does what is right. Admit when you're wrong, and learn from it. Always look back, see what you have achieved and be proud of yourself. Does not change for anyone, if you do not want. Do more. Live simply. And never stop moving.
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