15 things which you should refuse to be happy

Starting today, we will refuse all those things that no longer serve us, we will accept the changes. Ready? Getting Started!

This is a list of things that, if you refuse them, will make your life much easier and happier. We believe that there are so many things that cause us a lot of pain, stress and suffering, and instead let them go instead to be free from stress and be happy - we cling to them. Not anymore.

Starting today, we will refuse all those things that no longer serve us, we will accept the changes. Ready? Getting Started:

1. Give up everything that you need, so you were always right
Among us there are so many people who can not accept the wrong idea - wanting to be always right - even if there is a risk of termination of the excellent relations or if it causes a lot of stress and pain as we ourselves and others. Although it is simply not worth it. Whenever you feel the "urgency", you need to rush to the fight between those who is right and who is wrong, and ask yourself the question:

"Do I want to be right or do I want to be kind?»
~ Wayne Dyer

What's the difference, what will happen? Your selfishness really so great?

2. Give up the need to control
Be willing to give up the need to always control everything that is around you - situations, events, people, etc. Are they friends, colleagues or just strangers on the street - just let them be themselves. Let them all and let everyone be who he is, and you'll see how much better would your feelings.

"The world is defeated by those who enables him to be, but when you try to change it, the world will always be invincible."
~ Lao Tzu

3. Discard the charges
Give up the need to blame others for what you got or did not get to feel or not feel. Stop wasting their strength and begin to bear responsibility for their lives.

4. Avoid self-destructive self-talk
Like many people in the world who hurt themselves because of their negative, polluted and doomed to failure of thinking? Do not believe everything your mind tells you, especially if these negative thoughts and self-destructive. You are better than this.

"The mind - excellent if use it correctly. When used improperly, it becomes a destroyer »
~ Eckhart Tolle

5. Discard the limiting beliefs
about what you can or can not do something that is possible and what is impossible. From now on, you should not allow your limiting beliefs give you stuck in the wrong place. Put on the wings and fly!

"The belief - is not an idea held by the mind, is the idea that holds the mind»
~ Ellie Rosell

6. Discard the complaints
Avoid constant complaints needs many, many, many things - people, situations and events that make you unhappy, sad and oppressed. No one can make you unhappy, no situation can frustrate you if you do not allow it to her. There is no such situation that switch these feelings to you, the choice is up to you. Never underestimate the power of positive thinking.

7. Discard the luxury of criticism
Give up the need to criticize things, events and people who are different from you. We are all different, but at the same time, we are the same. We all want to be happy, to love and be loved, to be understood. We all want something.

8. Give up the need to impress others
Stop trying to be who you are not, just to make others love you. It does not work. At the time when you shall cease to be who are not as clear mask when accept yourself for who you are, you will find people who will be attracted by you without much effort.

9. Give up resistance to change
The changes - a good thing. They help you get from point A to point B. They help you to improve your life and the lives of those around you. Follow your bliss, accept change - do not resist them.

"Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors for you where there were once walls»
~ Joseph Campbell

10. Avoid shortcuts
Stop hang tags on things, people and events, if you do not understand their strange or different from you, and try to understand them, little by little. The mind works only when open.

"The highest form of ignorance - when you reject what you do not understand»
~ Wayne Dyer

11. Give up your fears
Fear - an illusion that does not exist - you are creating it. It is in your head. Correct inside and outside everything will fall into place.

"There is only one thing that we should fear - fear of their own»
~ Franklin D. Roosevelt

12. Avoid excuses
Tell them that they are dismissed. You no longer need them. In most cases, we limit ourselves because of the many excuses we use. Instead, to grow and to work on themselves and to improve their lives, we are stuck, we deceive ourselves, using all kinds of excuses - excuses are 99, 9% of the cases do not exist.

13. Discard the last
I know, I know. It's hard. Especially when the past looks better than the present and the future that look scary, but you have to take into account the fact that at the moment - all that you have or ever will have. The past, which you miss - the past, which you are dreaming - was ignored you when this was. Stop deceiving yourself. Live in the present and enjoy life. In the end, life - not a destination. Have a clear vision of the future, prepare yourself, but always live by this.

14. Avoid attachments
It is this concept that most of us are difficult to understand. I must confess that it has been and I have (and still is), but it's not impossible. You will be in the better and better if you practice. When you separate yourself from all the things (that does not mean that you will no longer love them - because love and affection have nothing to do, affection comes from the field of fears, while the love ... Well, true love is pure, good and selfless; where there is love, there can be fear, affection and love can not coexist), you will be so peaceful, tolerant, kind and serene. You will be taken to a place where you can understand all things without trying. Status without words.

15. Refuse to live the kind of life that you expect from other
Too many people do not live their lives. They live their lives in accordance with what others think is the best for them. They depend on what is considered their parents, their friends, their enemies, their teachers, the government and the media. They ignore their inner voices and impulses. They are so busy with satisfaction of everyone who wants to live in accordance with his expectations, they lose control over their lives. They have forgotten what makes them happy, what they want, what is needed ... and forget about yourself. You have one life - such as it is now - you have to live it, to own it, and do not let other people's opinions you shoot down your path.

This is a great list. We all need to remember these things and how each of us really strong.

Luminita Seviuk


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