But what do you do if your child is reading?



I, as a doctor, often ask - "what to do ... I think that my child started reading?»

I'll try to answer.

To begin with - that should alert you? Signs are known - the child was less than a walk, it is better to learn to love to retire with a book in his room, bathroom, toilet ... On the question of why he book - the child confused, hiding his eyes, resulting in some awkward explaining: "Ended toilet paper" "under the cabinet to put a leg", "we wanted to fight with Petya books ..." particularly disturbing situation where children are engaged in reading together, gather a group, discuss what they read. Many believe that this vice only affects boys - alas, it is not so! Girls are often just starting to read at a very early age and innocent.

But what do you do if your child is reading?

Firstly, do not be afraid of your own! When anonymous survey of physicians found that 99% of people at some point in their lives engaged in reading, and even one percent - drove this fact from his memory. Children leads to all new, the unknown, so the inevitable moment when they are interested in a book, take it in your hands and will learn.

Secondly, do not scare the kids! If you come to the nursery, and your child is reading - pretend not to notice. It is not necessary and medieval horror stories - "you'll go blind", "cut yourself fingers on paper", "you usohnet spinal cord and head the other way round will develop", "at the hands of the frequent turning will be corn." Yes, of course, reading interferes with vision and the paper can be cut. But it is not so tragic! Interest in reading as a child - of course. Try to distract the child with something else - sports, housework, computer games, drinking beer in the end (many consider this method risky, but the beer wonderful distraction from reading). You can show your child comics - there are very few letters and a lot of pictures, it's a good way to gradually switch its interest.

Third, seek professional help. We recommend quietly slip baby book by Leo Tolstoy, Fyodor Dostoyevsky or Maxim Gorky. Classic - one of the most proven ways to generate in the child healthy aversion to reading. But the specialist can advise and some special literature.

Fourth, talk with your child on the souls. Tell me what you know his interest in reading themselves have gone through it - and sooner or later he will cope with his bad habit. Understanding and peace in the family - the key to success.

Fifth, remember that the healing process will be long and retsedivy inevitable. Once in the army, deprived of the computer and the TV posorilis with a friend or girlfriend - the child can be pulled back to the book. There are cases when a drunken reading began to engage people, even in old age, trapped in difficult circumstances. But the sooner you start to deal with this defect, the more likely that your kids will throw the book and never take it up again!

© Sergey Lukyanenko

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