How to win indecision or go to an important meeting.

Everyone knows that feeling. At the head of a thousand thoughts, mostly formulated as "suddenly will not work", "hairstyle wrong" and finally, "why do I need it».

The result: an important meeting "failed": for work you have not accepted, loved one after the first date refused the prospect to meet you for a second time ...
Chef refused to lift your salary ...

What else is there? Yes, anything. And the result, among other things, it has provoked your indecision. So how can once and for all get rid of this complex "slaughtered" the child?

The first step

Well, first you need to confess his indecision himself, in spite of internal discomfort. Do not rush to withdraw into themselves and become isolated there. Very few people like to discuss the problem even by himself. Still, the problem begins with its discovery.

The origins of indecision

They are to be found somewhere in the distant past. Remember how mom or any of a long list of your loved ones once doubted your abilities, opportunities and prospects.

And if that someone questioned you not once, Lift result in a square. Well, think and remember, how often do you remember these doubts loved ones, standing in front of "the Door", for which there was something that was so important to you. Surely often.

And now you have to act the exact opposite. But this - a little below.

Methods of struggle with indecision

Motivation.
Think of a man who never doubted you and always perceived as being a person, no matter what. And before you once again open the "cherished door" play these words in mind in order to understand that you are the best (th).

Parenting self-awareness.
For example, you go to an important meeting production. This is great. And great in itself that you are invited. Losers and "losers" in the important meetings were not invited.

Perfect appearance.
For example, you go on a date with someone who you like. First, see the previous paragraph. For a date, too, have an important meeting, which is not invited "losers».

Your task - to make a good impression on someone with whom there has been a rendezvous. In order to feel comfortable, take care of hair, clothes. Practice feeling good about yourself.

Reception "distractions».
When before the meeting there is still some time, and you have nowhere to do with himself catastrophically, get that for a while will make you get distracted and spend time with benefits.

Listen to your favorite music. Solve the crossword puzzle. Write a poem. In other words, get the fact that before an important meeting will bring you the desired result and strengthen your confidence. And all will turn out!