Three things that everyone should know who are now over 20:

1. Forget about the crisis of identity, work on their personal capital. Do what increases your value, do something that will be an investment in the future. investing in development, you multiply the possibilities. That is why now is the time for training, learning another language and implementing a long-standing dream. Look for yourself, do not put it on "after 30". Find a job and go do something meaningful.

2. The importance of party greatly exaggerated. Best friends are irreplaceable when you need someone to take you to the airport. But new friends in adulthood, new acquaintances needed to increase personal capital does not come from the usual circle of friends. New dating right - it is always the weak links, friends of friends of our friends. Yes, half of those over 20 do not work anywhere and there is nothing in the classroom, but the second half of the working force and the weak links will help you get to know them and get into the second group.

3. It is generally believed that the family did not choose, but choose friends. This is so as long as you're a kid, but after 20 You choose your family, in fact, you'll have to do it, entering into a relationship. Now is the time to choose a family! Perhaps you think that 30 years - a good age to settle down, 20 or 25. Yes, it is. But the catch at the person with whom you live or sleep at 30, when all friends VKontakte has posted photos of their children - not a step forward. Start building a relationship you need before you get married. This means that love must be sought as purposefully as a job. Choose a family, then consciously choose who you want to be and what to do instead of trying to build something out of nothing, or simply while away the time with the first available that chooses you.