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How to be irresistible
If you believe the science, there are five major factors that influence the attractiveness of the person for the opposite sex:
1. A sense of humor
What a sense of humor makes a person attractive - not news. However, as it turned out, by itself, the concept of "sense of humor", men and women understand differently.
Women tend to say that a man has "a good sense of humor," if he is able to make them laugh. Men, on the contrary, a sense of humor is considered an indicator of the ability of women roared with laughter at each of their jokes.
The researchers found that the ability to come up with the severity of the woman unconsciously associated with the intelligence of men. That is a kind of rapid test, the evolution of the waste, which allows you to quickly determine whether or not to communicate with the applicant "in the hand and heart" and whether he had the gumption to provide all the necessary offspring.
So the men - more kidding, women - feel free to laugh at the jokes of men who are nice to you.
2. Interest in the potential partners
Science says: the best strategy to win someone's attention - is unobtrusively demonstrate their special favor to a certain person. According to research, 90 percent of love began with the discovery that the next "thing" shows him / her increased interest.
This effect is associated with other popular effect - "a game of inaccessibility". The essence of this game is to inspire someone who is nice to you, that interest you, "Well sooooo difficult", but that communication with him / her somehow gives you a lot of fun.
3. The subject of conversation
If you want to win anyone's sympathy, to choose a subject for conversation to the mind.
Psychologist at the University of New York Stony Brook has developed a system that allowed strangers to each other people know each other so well that they began to feel like close friends and kindred spirits in just one hour of communication. That is Brooke managed to fit in an hour something that in ordinary life takes months, even years. The secret is simple - he made a list of 36 questions that participants in the experiment asked each other. The person with whom you share an emotionally-personal information is getting to you friends and relatives in record time.
4. Character
The researchers found that, although mandatory honest and best people leave spouses and parents, more lo * sualnoy appeal, sadly, have "bad boys" and "Bad Girls".
This again is due to the evolution and laid in us a desire for procreation. People are capable of creating a stable relationship to anything to attract a large number of partners. Another thing people quarrelsome and conflict - they tend to acquire a greater number of romantic relationships, not to be left alone. That is the failure to create "high-quality" relationship they compensate for the number of connections.
5. "Emotional transference"
According to the findings of psychologists, is that we fall in love with another person, we only think. In fact, we fall in love with their own feelings, who feel close to this man.
It turns out that our bodies are terribly naive. And cheat at every turn. For example, if you suddenly got scared, then your brain can be deceived, and interpret heart palpitations and sweaty palms as a sign of excitement in the presence of someone who at that moment happened to be near.
Researchers Donald Dutton and Arthur Aron asked his assistant to approach different men under the pretext of taking part in the polls. After that she had, again under the pretext, to foist its subjects telefonchik. For the experiment was selected park, which had a long suspension bridge over a very deep canyon.
First assistant suited to those who walked sedately on the alley or sitting on the benches. Then - to those who are in the process of terrible shaky bridge the gap with fast mountain river.
It turned out that the more willing to engage in dialogue, and then more often (five times!) Called with an offer to meet those men to whom the assistant approached while crossing the bridge, that is, at the time of strong emotional excitement (go really terrible, it seems - one wrong move and you sorvёshsya into the abyss). Their brain mistakenly interpreted its own excitement and heart palpitations as the desire for a beautiful woman.
So if you yourself have chosen one - pull her / him to the worst of the horror. What is worse is your sweetheart, the more attractive your image engraved in his / her memory.
But the horror is not the only opportunity to influence your choice of sexual partner.
Let's say you went to the romantic drama. And the saddest moment suddenly (if you're a girl) wept. And your companion, naturally, you will conclude its soothing embrace. And ... at this point level of testosterone decreases as knocked down. It turns out that women's tears contain a hormone that blunts the male libido.
Scientists who have studied this phenomenon is associated with the evolution of its origin. They believe that in prehistoric times, when man was still not strong in the verbal expression of feelings, tears were the equivalent of the words "no" or "not now».
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