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What to do in an awkward situation.
An awkward situation arises simply because any action you violate our standard of conduct adopted in society, and in breach of by accident. And now your task - to re-enter the track communicating with minimal losses for the nerves and reputation.
Four rules for what to do in an awkward situation:
1. The main rule out of an awkward situation - humor. Awkward situation need to ridicule, turned so that she played in your favor. Sometimes it is hard to imagine, in fact all quite simple. You accidentally spill coffee on a white blouse at all? "It's all the same I never liked" - so just laugh it off and not feel uncomfortable! Or maybe you want to transport give way to a girl because she is pregnant, and it turned out that she just chubby. Tell them that today have forgotten at home glasses and did not see what she really slender and beautiful, and still gave her place.
2. The second rule - never run from an awkward situation, his eyes closed. You do not have enough money to pay at the cash register in the store? And tell the clerk asked to leave the items that you need the least, apologize, say misjudged the contents of the purse. Payback for what the missing and awkward situation defeated. Or maybe you have mistaken fun and greeted with a perfect stranger. Do not run away immediately, ask for forgiveness, tell me what wrong and wished him a good day. At the same time raise another man mood.
3. However, there are situations that do not help neither jokes nor apology. Let's say you sat on a bench painted. Now, in any case have to get to the house striped. But do not forget that the people on the street, even if they look askance at you and grin, see you on the first and last time. You will never meet with them, and it makes no sense to worry about what happened.
4. The most important thing - do not forget that in the misfortunes of life for all fall. Even if the cheeks burning with shame and do not know where to go, do not forget that this situation will be forgotten as soon as possible. Well, perhaps you will remember from time to time. If the people around do not have enough tact and common sense will soon forget about the embarrassment, and they always will you remember it, then you may want to change the team, as this is not too adequate.