Why did they reappear, and we allow ourselves to go back ...? Bashny.Net

Everything happens unexpectedly and, even more so unexpectedly. At the very moment when it is already almost "cured." Heal the pain, the cause of which served as a break. The painful and inevitable, and even it does not matter who initiated. But she survived, passing through a veil of tears, illusions and indifference to everything. She again began to enjoy pieces of the clear blue sky above his head. Or at least take the first bold steps towards this. But at one point, unexpectedly and, even more unexpectedly, in the midst of the clear blue sky and a loud rumbling sound of thunder ... sms from him!





Why is life so often generous on such unpredictable twists and turns? Perhaps it is so gracious and merciful, that "hearing our prayers," gives the most coveted, having lost something, you begin to feel inferior? After all, it seems that here it is ... something over the loss of what has been shed so many tears deep night, and the image of someone with such work was "removed" from memory. And one has only to reach out and fill in the answer cherished a few words, all back to normal, if it was not this nightmare! But it is all so simple really? And, perhaps, throwing this challenge, Life wants to ensure the hardness of the decision? And subjected to temptation, trying to break, thus making even more? All our life - the game, but does it mean that she's playing with us? Hardly ... because life is everything else also thought-out! Mosaic, seeming to us the incredible and the occasional, carefully evaluate it in detail. And the true reasons why he returns often are not even known, even to himself. But we know of Life, whose main objective is to teach us how to live ...



After all, if there is such, it is likely to remain unlearned lesson. And, then, it needs to be improved. Gaps remain in the relationship, and for which the generated steam. And turning a blind eye, under the guise of explanations like "convinced that it is better I do not" or "realized that without me can not be" at least unwise ... This is the path of least resistance, in addition to a waste of time. It has long been known to all and that the souls before coming to earth agree about where, how and why to meet, came down from heaven. And so here it is necessary "to mature in the root," as once said Kozma bars. And in the context of this topic, it will be the most loyal of all the decisions ...

Of course, nobody canceled the exception to the rule. And someone did, for what would truly appreciate what has to be first to lose. A similar "resuscitation feelings" may be the most that neither is, enlightenment. In a few cases ... In the majority, "those same rake" in the face of another man, carrying with them the same problems, will continue to fall on the long road of life exactly as long as the lesson did not appear until the end passed. What is trying to teach life, plunging in similar circumstances? The answer to this question in common with the answer to the next, no less important ... and why, in fact, she allows herself to him to come back?



Suppose she still loves, and hoped ... hoped they would be together again. And do not for a day, a night or a week, but forever. He proposed to her, they were married and she would bear him a bunch of kids. ... He was the one who had once left, or let himself go into a hasty response to her desire. What motivates her? Can it be true that same love? Or still ... addiction? Indeed, in the first case, it could safely let him go with all your heart knowing that just so ... so, that's better! And not only for him ... for both. But there is no sense of ownership ... and selfishness continue to do their job. After all, she wants to see him next to a particular person, not just a lover who may be completely different. But without realizing it, she has no choice as to mask all this sacrifice and continue to desire his return. And with a happy outcome, of course, come back to it ...

After the break, many women there is fear ... and a feeling that nobody likes and nobody It is no longer necessary. But how great, returned to him again to feel loved and desired ... For this very reason, to the former returns a huge number of women stepping on the same rake, thus eventually causing yourself more pain. That's just how long will this last, had already gave fracture union? And how long will she be able to take refuge under artificial sense of usefulness? It is unlikely, since, according to the main condition of the lesson, he returned a short time, a week, a day, or even overnight, for what would then once again to strike to weaknesses heal which it and will ...



The drop their self-esteem as a result of inevitable parting, and then return to the former may be completely justified in her eyes ... based on self-affirmation. Not a bad option ... that's just as well have "pitfalls". First, the mere fact that the woman is trying to assert itself at the expense of attention from men ... not good. Unnatural, so to speak. But even in this, it is not humane, in terms of women's nature, the approach, it is unlikely to succeed. Because feelings for him still continue to smolder in her, though wounded, but originally the women's breasts and so long to play a role invented not come. Sooner or later they will come to the surface and then ... start all over again. While possible, and another option ... reverse. The game will go so far as to not to sense it will have. Rather not light up! And more to the dark ... because assertiveness - untilled field for the shoot of seeds such dangerous and cold dishes, as revenge ... In particular, in the case where the break was initiated ... He.



You can amuse yourself another illusion and try to stay lovers, securing its decision conditional imprint in the minds of "For the health." Needless to say, as this way is far from the true path of Women in its very essence? After all, for her connection to a man can not take place only at the level of the body, here definitely adds another heart! So, what is the final destination, in this case? Right ... "Hello again, the relationship!", Which in the circumstances is simply inevitable.



And because nothing is more reasonable and self-sufficient than with a light heart to let go of the past, thus opening the door to the future. But first you need to make all the lessons deeply realized ... that if the cup is cracked, then no matter how try to glue it, the new it will never be, and sooner or later all the same will flow ...