Turn Yourself

Man can not perceive the world completely objectively. This is similar to how you insert a slide projector and look at the picture. Normal uniform light passing through the film is converted into a picture on the screen. Perception acts as a screen, light is the world, and slide - our world, that is the model of our understanding of this world ...






Representation of each person about themselves and about the world is often far from the truth. Distortion make our slides. For example, you are concerned about some personal flaws, and because of this you feel a sense of inferiority - in fact it seems that others do not like it ...
But in the minds of others not at all thinking about it. These thoughts are only in your head in the form of a slide, which distorts reality ...
Slides are two ways. On the one hand, they distort the representation of a person about his place in this world and the attitude of those around him. On the other hand, they distort his perception of the outside world. In particular, one tends to see the properties of his slide in the surrounding people. For example, a person does not like what is innate qualities of his character. He seeks to hide them from myself away to himself not to see. But to conceal unsightly slide impossible, he sits in the head and doing his job. In humans, the illusion that others think and act about the same as himself. And if some of the qualities in themselves do not like, he is inclined to see the same thing in the other, that is to hang them on their projections.
Projection - this is when dissatisfaction, driven into the subconscious, splashed on others. People do not want to curse himself for some bad side, so he tends to see these same parties in others. People are often willing to criticize others for what they themselves do not like about yourself ...
If you are in something trying to unfairly blame or to attribute other people's quality, ask yourself if there is at the very same prosecutor that he is trying to hang on the other. Is likely to be that way, because if you really do not have this, it means that the prosecutor sits in the head slide, which projects its picture ...




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