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One day, when no one was home, my father-in-law had a very unpleasant conversation with me.
Most adults are able to distinguish good from evil and good from bad. Human moral principles In most parts of the world, they are essentially the same. To help the family, not to offend the weak, to protect women and children. It's all embedded in our genetic and mental code, so people are used to surviving and evolving. In fairness, while very good at handling it. But we also have moments when old, well-known truths are called into question.
Peels, like parents. We all know they need to be loved and appreciated no matter what. At the same time, a significant number of people would agree with the statement that if parents themselves are bad people who have behaved abhorrently and continue to behave the same way, then they can and should be avoided. The same is true of relatives and even children to some extent. It turns out that the main moral postulates of humanity collapse if they are put in a framework that is not quite convenient for us. And this fact puts many people in a completely awkward position.
Until the last I did not want to tell anyone about this, but now there is no longer any strength to endure. In my life with my husband again appeared his father and my father-in-law - an old drunkard, a womanizer and just a man who has absolutely no conscience. I haven't seen him for 7 years and if I hadn't seen him at all, I wouldn't regret it. Unfortunately, his health was surprisingly strong. So, apparently, all of us will have to endure it for a while.
Trust me, I'm not making a mistake. This man is really as horrible as I describe him. Eight years ago I married my husband and as a young wife I moved into his house. Previously, he lived with his parents in a private house, as there was relatively much space there and there was no need to move. I was a simple girl, ready to do anything for her husband. So it wasn't a matter of principle that I now had to live with my husband and his parents.
My mom and dad gave us some money, but we decided not to spend it, but to put it in the bank as a start to buy a separate apartment. No, my dowry wasn't as much as you might think. But still, it was something. As time passed, Bones and I loved each other and I lived with hopes for our quiet and happy future.
The only problem was my father-in-law. As I said, this man has always been indifferent to the bottle. As a result, you could expect anything from him. Scandals, broken dishes and furniture, screaming from night to morning, and so on. My husband did not want to solve this issue, no matter how I asked him. He said he wasn't going to put his hand on his father, no matter what. The most I can remember is a few skirmishes between them on the street, when the father-in-law pretended to understand how terrible he was behaving.
But the most inexcusable incident occurred about a month before my father-in-law left home. In the afternoon, when my husband was at work and my mother-in-law had gone to the market, my father-in-law hinted unequivocally that he would like to have an affair with me. When I realized what he was trying to achieve, I was just in shock and threw a tantrum right in the same place. It's a good thing he left immediately and I didn't have to call anyone for help. After careful thought, I did not talk about the incident to my husband, so as not to cause more problems.
A month later, the father-in-law left home on his own. Not because of what happened recently, no. It turned out that his older sister left him a large amount of money. Namely, about 10,000 dollars. Which he was very happy about. After thinking for a few days about the opportunities that fell on his head, my husband’s father decided that he no longer wanted to stay in the family. He gave his son $2,000, and he left with the rest of the money somewhere where they pour a lot and do not judge at all. He hasn't even filed for divorce. It was a float, as they say.
For the 7 years that he was not, my husband and I managed to buy a good apartment and move. The only plus of a small town is affordable real estate. We had a son and now we live as we always wanted. But the father-in-law appeared again on the horizon. And it spoils my mood worse than any saddest news. He had already managed to talk to Bones, hung noodles on him about how he missed his son, how he wants to mess with his grandson and what a nasty and vindictive mother-in-law, because he does not let his lawful husband into the house! That's what I understand, man's audacity.
He did not forget the old debt either. The money my husband left behind. Just 2 percent of what his sister gave him. Well, you're the father! I could give you nothing if I could not see you again. I understand he wants to move into our apartment, we just have a little empty room. But I am categorically against it and I say it directly to my husband.
But Kostya is a gentleman. He loves his parents and it is difficult for him to refuse his father, even if he does. I see him trying to sit on two chairs just because he doesn't want to hurt anyone. But it still won't work, I'm sure. The moral principles of man do not climb into any gate! There's a last resort. Tell me about how his dad used to molest me a long time ago. I didn’t want to play this card, but I probably will. What happens next, God knows. But I will defend my territory to the last!
Peels, like parents. We all know they need to be loved and appreciated no matter what. At the same time, a significant number of people would agree with the statement that if parents themselves are bad people who have behaved abhorrently and continue to behave the same way, then they can and should be avoided. The same is true of relatives and even children to some extent. It turns out that the main moral postulates of humanity collapse if they are put in a framework that is not quite convenient for us. And this fact puts many people in a completely awkward position.
Until the last I did not want to tell anyone about this, but now there is no longer any strength to endure. In my life with my husband again appeared his father and my father-in-law - an old drunkard, a womanizer and just a man who has absolutely no conscience. I haven't seen him for 7 years and if I hadn't seen him at all, I wouldn't regret it. Unfortunately, his health was surprisingly strong. So, apparently, all of us will have to endure it for a while.
Trust me, I'm not making a mistake. This man is really as horrible as I describe him. Eight years ago I married my husband and as a young wife I moved into his house. Previously, he lived with his parents in a private house, as there was relatively much space there and there was no need to move. I was a simple girl, ready to do anything for her husband. So it wasn't a matter of principle that I now had to live with my husband and his parents.
My mom and dad gave us some money, but we decided not to spend it, but to put it in the bank as a start to buy a separate apartment. No, my dowry wasn't as much as you might think. But still, it was something. As time passed, Bones and I loved each other and I lived with hopes for our quiet and happy future.
The only problem was my father-in-law. As I said, this man has always been indifferent to the bottle. As a result, you could expect anything from him. Scandals, broken dishes and furniture, screaming from night to morning, and so on. My husband did not want to solve this issue, no matter how I asked him. He said he wasn't going to put his hand on his father, no matter what. The most I can remember is a few skirmishes between them on the street, when the father-in-law pretended to understand how terrible he was behaving.
But the most inexcusable incident occurred about a month before my father-in-law left home. In the afternoon, when my husband was at work and my mother-in-law had gone to the market, my father-in-law hinted unequivocally that he would like to have an affair with me. When I realized what he was trying to achieve, I was just in shock and threw a tantrum right in the same place. It's a good thing he left immediately and I didn't have to call anyone for help. After careful thought, I did not talk about the incident to my husband, so as not to cause more problems.
A month later, the father-in-law left home on his own. Not because of what happened recently, no. It turned out that his older sister left him a large amount of money. Namely, about 10,000 dollars. Which he was very happy about. After thinking for a few days about the opportunities that fell on his head, my husband’s father decided that he no longer wanted to stay in the family. He gave his son $2,000, and he left with the rest of the money somewhere where they pour a lot and do not judge at all. He hasn't even filed for divorce. It was a float, as they say.
For the 7 years that he was not, my husband and I managed to buy a good apartment and move. The only plus of a small town is affordable real estate. We had a son and now we live as we always wanted. But the father-in-law appeared again on the horizon. And it spoils my mood worse than any saddest news. He had already managed to talk to Bones, hung noodles on him about how he missed his son, how he wants to mess with his grandson and what a nasty and vindictive mother-in-law, because he does not let his lawful husband into the house! That's what I understand, man's audacity.
He did not forget the old debt either. The money my husband left behind. Just 2 percent of what his sister gave him. Well, you're the father! I could give you nothing if I could not see you again. I understand he wants to move into our apartment, we just have a little empty room. But I am categorically against it and I say it directly to my husband.
But Kostya is a gentleman. He loves his parents and it is difficult for him to refuse his father, even if he does. I see him trying to sit on two chairs just because he doesn't want to hurt anyone. But it still won't work, I'm sure. The moral principles of man do not climb into any gate! There's a last resort. Tell me about how his dad used to molest me a long time ago. I didn’t want to play this card, but I probably will. What happens next, God knows. But I will defend my territory to the last!
All my life I have helped my family, but recently everything has changed.
At 7 a.m., my husband and I jumped out of bed because of noise in the yard, as it turned out, it was the work of my mother.