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The story of a strong and confident girl who met the wrong man
The Bible says patience is a sign of prudence. Therefore, they say that one must endure all adversity steadfastly and humbly.
Please do not confuse patience with stupidity and indecision. If a woman suffers the beatings of a drunken husband, it is not patience, but stupidity and spinelessness. And love has nothing to do with it!
About patience Svetlana grew up a beautiful girl with a lively character. The parents were convinced that their daughter would not take offense when she grew up. And the older sister admired how confident the younger went through life.
This continued until the girl met Vladimir. Svetlana as replaced: she did not notice anything, did not listen to anyone and went to the guy on the occasion. When she introduced the parents to the future son-in-law, they were a little stunned by the choice of their daughter: neither appearance nor wealth did the young man differ. But the elderly did not argue with Svetlana, because they knew their daughter well and trusted her.
After the wedding, the newlyweds rented a separate apartment and began to live independently. Vovka relaxed and began to show his true face. He often came from work drunk. And when Svetlana made a remark to her husband, he slapped his wife in the face. In the morning, the man crawled on his knees, apologized and prayed that this would never happen again. And the woman in love forgave her husband.
They were invited to a bar for their birthday. A large group gathered at the table. All together proclaimed toast after toast and drank for the health of the culprit. In the middle of the evening, Svetlana noticed that Vladimir was not standing on his feet. She wanted to quietly take him out of the hall, but the drunken husband did not like it, and he hit the woman in a rage. Friends ran up to them, calmed down their spouse and sent a young couple to take a taxi home.
On the second day, my mother called because friends told her about the incident yesterday. She began to ask her daughter about what had happened and asked her not to be offended. Svetlana became very ashamed in front of her mother, so she said that it was all gossip. The girl swore that nothing happened, and the mother believed the words of her daughter.
A week later, Vovka returned from work very drunk, and Svetlana did not restrain herself. She screamed that her patience had run out, and frightened her husband with her departure. The man raged on his wife. The next day Vovka gave a vow not to drink anymore, and Sveta lied to her parents that she fell and injured her hand.
Two months later, Svetlana found out she was pregnant. She called her husband and told him the good news: they were having a baby. Vovka's drunk. When she saw her husband drunk, she burst into tears. This caused rage in the man's hung brain, and he attacked his wife with his fists more than before.
She waited for her drunken husband to fall asleep. Through pain, she reached the neighbors and, asking to call an ambulance, lost consciousness. Svetlana woke up in the morning in the hospital. When asked what happened to her baby, the doctor silently shrugged.
After discharge, Svetlana returned to her parents. With the loss of a child, her painful attachment to Vovka was dispelled. The woman realized that she should not tolerate a tyrant husband. She went through a brutal school of life. What a price she paid for science!
Please do not confuse patience with stupidity and indecision. If a woman suffers the beatings of a drunken husband, it is not patience, but stupidity and spinelessness. And love has nothing to do with it!
About patience Svetlana grew up a beautiful girl with a lively character. The parents were convinced that their daughter would not take offense when she grew up. And the older sister admired how confident the younger went through life.
This continued until the girl met Vladimir. Svetlana as replaced: she did not notice anything, did not listen to anyone and went to the guy on the occasion. When she introduced the parents to the future son-in-law, they were a little stunned by the choice of their daughter: neither appearance nor wealth did the young man differ. But the elderly did not argue with Svetlana, because they knew their daughter well and trusted her.
After the wedding, the newlyweds rented a separate apartment and began to live independently. Vovka relaxed and began to show his true face. He often came from work drunk. And when Svetlana made a remark to her husband, he slapped his wife in the face. In the morning, the man crawled on his knees, apologized and prayed that this would never happen again. And the woman in love forgave her husband.
They were invited to a bar for their birthday. A large group gathered at the table. All together proclaimed toast after toast and drank for the health of the culprit. In the middle of the evening, Svetlana noticed that Vladimir was not standing on his feet. She wanted to quietly take him out of the hall, but the drunken husband did not like it, and he hit the woman in a rage. Friends ran up to them, calmed down their spouse and sent a young couple to take a taxi home.
On the second day, my mother called because friends told her about the incident yesterday. She began to ask her daughter about what had happened and asked her not to be offended. Svetlana became very ashamed in front of her mother, so she said that it was all gossip. The girl swore that nothing happened, and the mother believed the words of her daughter.
A week later, Vovka returned from work very drunk, and Svetlana did not restrain herself. She screamed that her patience had run out, and frightened her husband with her departure. The man raged on his wife. The next day Vovka gave a vow not to drink anymore, and Sveta lied to her parents that she fell and injured her hand.
Two months later, Svetlana found out she was pregnant. She called her husband and told him the good news: they were having a baby. Vovka's drunk. When she saw her husband drunk, she burst into tears. This caused rage in the man's hung brain, and he attacked his wife with his fists more than before.
She waited for her drunken husband to fall asleep. Through pain, she reached the neighbors and, asking to call an ambulance, lost consciousness. Svetlana woke up in the morning in the hospital. When asked what happened to her baby, the doctor silently shrugged.
After discharge, Svetlana returned to her parents. With the loss of a child, her painful attachment to Vovka was dispelled. The woman realized that she should not tolerate a tyrant husband. She went through a brutal school of life. What a price she paid for science!
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