Previously, the wife from Moscow was considered the limit of dreams of any foreigner, but now the situation has changed.

There used to be a stereotype that Slavic The limit of dreams for a foreigner. This was especially true of Russian women. Recently I came across a very interesting article on the Internet. The author not only dispels the myth about the privilege of Russian ladies abroad, but also makes it clear that no one is waiting for them there. Why so, we'll find out together today.



There is an opinion that marriage for Russian women is an obsession. You have to get married at all costs. In doing so, man becomes simply an object, or worse, an instrument with which to achieve his goal. A Russian woman is not interested in her husband, but rather the presence of a stamp in her passport. The pursuit of status in society has destroyed all romance!

A healthy marriage is the work of two partners on a relationship. But Russians are not always ready to strain for this. In the collective female consciousness of Russian ladies, the status of a breadwinner was fixed for a man. He has a lot of obligations that a picky spouse will control.



Interestingly, Russian men are often satisfied with manipulations in relationships. They just don’t know another pattern of behavior. But foreigners rarely like this. Marriage with a Russian woman is out of the question. Abroad, people know their worth and will not tolerate consumerism.

But Russian wives are ready to do anything to save the marriage. No matter how tyrant the man, the Russian will do everything possible to ensure that the stamp in the passport remained intact. Someone explains this with pity for a man.



But it's much simpler: we're dealing with a codependent relationship. And often a woman plays a good role in them, and the role of the villain, because of which the wife suffers, of course, goes to the man. The point is to look white and fluffy against the background of a very mediocre partner, who also has a wagon of bad habits.

When a Russian woman marries, she binds the knot not only herself, but all her relatives. No wonder there were so many stereotypes and anecdotes about mother-in-law, mother-in-law and the like with them.

Foreigners have a slightly different mentality. In most countries abroad, people experience separation quite early and clearly separate their personal life from their parents. Marrying a Russian woman, a foreigner also receives ballast in the form of her relatives, who sometimes need not only to love, but also to maintain. Not every man would like that, would he?



It is especially unpleasant when the wife’s mother sticks her nose into other people’s affairs. At best, it will cost the constant involvement of the mother-in-law in the family life of the spouses. At worst, she will give unsolicited advice and teach her father-in-law’s mind.

In addition, there is a stereotype that Russian women have a special point about motherhood. Becoming a mother for them is akin to a feat and the only way of self-realization. And when they accomplish this feat, the whole world must begin to revolve around them and their child. In this case, the father of the baby is given a rather meager role.



Only now conscious men want to take an active part in the upbringing of their child. Especially if we are talking about foreigners, for whom paternity becomes a really serious stage in life. And few people want to compete for the opportunity to communicate with a child.

All these stereotypes appeared because such Russians really do exist. For many of them, there is no concept of happiness as a process of life. Happiness becomes a manic idea, the goal of existence. But to achieve it without proper motivation is simply impossible.

To be truly happy, It's important to be, not to appear. How many women in your circle follow this principle?



Of course, you can say that a lot of what was written is far-fetched. And the Slavic woman is really not like that. That’s why there are comments where you can express your point of view. Wait for you downstairs!