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I realized that I spent 22 years in vain, lived in a foreign country, and did not earn money.
Many people think that working abroad is a simple job. After all, there are many stories when people earn a lot of money and buy housing in a few years. But not all stories are as rosy. The heroine of our history after many years in a foreign country came to sad conclusions.
Editorial "Site" He will tell you her story and forgive her wise advice.
Recently I realized that in 22 years abroad I have achieved nothing. When I was 40, my husband left me. Then I decided to go to work in Italy. Everyone was there at the time, so I decided to try my luck. I was supposed to go away for a couple of years to help my sons get back on their feet. They were 18 and 19 at the time.
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A couple of years later, the sons married and both went to live in the house of the bride. By then, I was already making good money, about 1,000 euros a month. I divided the money into three parts: me and my sons. I sent it regularly every month, I did not spend an extra penny on myself. I didn’t ask where they spent that money. The grown boys will figure it out for themselves.
So my couple of years stretched over 22 years. I thought I'd make some more money and come back. But recently I realized that I wasted all these years. My sister went abroad 8 years ago. She had a clear goal: to buy her daughter and son an apartment. And in those 8 years, she bought two apartments. I worked another six months to save myself for the first time. And now I'm back home.
When I found out about this, my ground was gone. What have I been doing these 20 years? My sons saved nothing out of the money they sent, they spent everything. In the end, no apartments, no money. Over the years, they have not been able to leave their wives’ parents.
And now I'm sitting there thinking, how stupid it all turned out. So I've been working so hard for 22 years. Yeah, the kids lived a little better. But is that enough?
Editorial opinion Sad situation. There are a lot of regrets about lost time. It is sad that a woman came to such conclusions. Still, she worked hard, it's not easy earnings. However, empty regrets will not lead to anything. A woman needs to take care of herself. Her sons are grown men who can take care of their families. She needs to let go of all those heavy thoughts and move on. What do you think of that?
Editorial "Site" He will tell you her story and forgive her wise advice.
Recently I realized that in 22 years abroad I have achieved nothing. When I was 40, my husband left me. Then I decided to go to work in Italy. Everyone was there at the time, so I decided to try my luck. I was supposed to go away for a couple of years to help my sons get back on their feet. They were 18 and 19 at the time.
73239,000
A couple of years later, the sons married and both went to live in the house of the bride. By then, I was already making good money, about 1,000 euros a month. I divided the money into three parts: me and my sons. I sent it regularly every month, I did not spend an extra penny on myself. I didn’t ask where they spent that money. The grown boys will figure it out for themselves.
So my couple of years stretched over 22 years. I thought I'd make some more money and come back. But recently I realized that I wasted all these years. My sister went abroad 8 years ago. She had a clear goal: to buy her daughter and son an apartment. And in those 8 years, she bought two apartments. I worked another six months to save myself for the first time. And now I'm back home.
When I found out about this, my ground was gone. What have I been doing these 20 years? My sons saved nothing out of the money they sent, they spent everything. In the end, no apartments, no money. Over the years, they have not been able to leave their wives’ parents.
And now I'm sitting there thinking, how stupid it all turned out. So I've been working so hard for 22 years. Yeah, the kids lived a little better. But is that enough?
Editorial opinion Sad situation. There are a lot of regrets about lost time. It is sad that a woman came to such conclusions. Still, she worked hard, it's not easy earnings. However, empty regrets will not lead to anything. A woman needs to take care of herself. Her sons are grown men who can take care of their families. She needs to let go of all those heavy thoughts and move on. What do you think of that?
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