My daughter forbids me to go to work, at 50 I am old for hard work. Bashny.Net

Duty of care for parents They are inevitably on the shoulders of their children. But that’s the whole point of human existence, isn’t it? Mom and Dad help their dear child get back on their feet. And the child grows up and supports the parents when, due to age, it is already difficult for them to hold on to their two.



This warm hearted story happened to Olga. A woman her entire conscious life worked in Italy. For almost 25 years Olya gave her warmth to other people, while her husband and young daughter Karina remained at home. Then Olya could not do otherwise, because her husband Igor was left without work. His mother was ill for a long time, and Igor had to devote the lion’s share of his time to her.

Olya did not resist, because she understood that her mother is the most valuable thing that each of us has. In addition, Igor had no one except his mother. Olga agreed to work for two so that he could fully devote himself to caring for his own soul. The girl was happy that her mother also entered the position and took the process of raising Karina herself.



But even the long separation of Oli and Karina did not prevent the two women to keep in touch. Olga was ready to do anything so that her daughter had the best gadgets, fashionable things, expensive cosmetics. She did everything to make Karina happy. Mom didn't even think it would ruin her daughter. And that's what happened. Karina is the most. prizedIt's all about the attention and energy that mom gives her.

The girl always tried to respond in kind. She got a job as soon as she could, and slowly began to save money from the bench. She thought her family was doing well. Although the question is companionship The woman tried not to lift. The couple long ago realized they were cold. But no one could start talking about divorce first.



“Mom, this is the healthiest decision in years. I haven't seen my father since I started living with my grandmother. And we were supposed to be doing well. I know he had to look after his mother. But he simply refused us and you, once said to the phone Karina. Olga was stunned by her bold thoughts, but she knew she was right. At the same time, she admired the wisdom of her young daughter.



Plans to divorce, Igor took for granted. Olga herself understood that for such a long time apart, they are unlikely to be able to restore their former feelings. Although Igor first agreed to divorce, then gave back. Olga did not understand what forced him. change his mind. But, unfortunately, the words of the husband did not take long to wait.

“You give me all your last Italian salary and you get a divorce,” he said. Olga was shocked. She had just arrived and hoped she would be able to stay in her home country for a while without a job. I had to get used to it. What would she do if she gave it all up? And just like that, for someone else's whim.



That's when Karina intervened. “Don’t worry about it, Mommy, you’re not that old anymore. I'll resolve this. We will get a divorce and we will have the money. Olga had no idea how her daughter would turn such a weapon, but agreed. Life away from home and years of total restraints have crippled her health.



An important duty of care for parents Olga sat at the table of the restaurant and waited for her order. Although she was embarrassed to spend money on trips to restaurants, Karina insisted. This is a reason to leave without celebration. Not only did they get a divorce, but they also successfully replaced the envelopes with money. “Well, you have to drag all sorts of bums on your hump. Sitting without an Italian salary, maybe getting smarter. Dad himself would not have thought of this for sure, it was his new passion that she wanted money. I imagine their faces when they see empty papers in the envelope, Karina laughed.



Thoughts swarmed in Olga's head: "Daughter against new trips to Italy." But can I do that? Is there enough money that Karina and I have saved for a decent life? However, even hard thinking did not interrupt the happiness in Oli's soul. She is close to her soulmate and feels like smiling all the time. Maybe her daughter's right. Now Karina takes the reins into her own hands, and Ole has to trust her completely.