She fell in love with a teacher, he is married, but promises to file for divorce

My friend. fell in love with a teacher And she doesn't know what to do now. She shared her pain with me and asked me to give her good advice. The topic is very sensitive, but interesting. How Anya managed to get into such a difficult story, I tell you in detail further in the article.



I fell in love with the teacher I admit I'm screwed! It all started back in September when I had a new teacher at the university. He started teaching practical philosophy classes with my group. I was lost on the first one! I never thought I would like a man much older than me. But this case is an exception to the rule.



At first I tried to keep all the bad thoughts away. I go to university to study, not to look at adult men. But with each new occupation, I was drawn to Oleg Sergeyevich more and more.

I studied philosophy hard, I pulled my hand on each pair, I wanted to be the best among my classmates. And I have to say that it was very easy for me. Although I was constantly thinking about my teacher, everything else was miraculously remembered. Perhaps I wanted to like Oleg Sergeyevich too much. What girls don't do for love, do they?



I didn’t really think about it that way at the time. I just wanted him to remember me, because in six months we will no longer sit nicely and talk in pairs.

But very soon I began to notice that the situation was getting out of control. My philosophy teacher started looking at me like I was special. Then I noticed that he accidentally grazed my hand when I approached him with a signature journal (I'm a band chief).



It ended with me not being able to stand it and asking him to meet after the couples at the nearest coffee shop. I must say that Oleg Sergeyevich did not expect this. But he agreed.

After that, we began to meet there more and more often. We really talked about studying until one day he told me he really liked me. I blushed and said I felt the same way.

I was afraid to tell anyone that. Even my closest friend didn’t know what was going on in my personal life. When our first kiss happened, I thought I was in a movie. Well, it can't really be!



But life is unpredictable. I have seen this again and again since then. It turned out that Oleg Sergeyevich has a wife. How did I not think of that before? For some reason it did not occur to me that such a prominent man could have a spouse.

When Oleg told me everything, I immediately decided to break up with him. That's too much even for me! But then he started begging me not to leave him. He said he was going to break up with his wife for a long time. Like, they are only formally together, but in fact they have nothing in common for a long time.



I don't know what to do. I know in my brain that I am embarking on a very bad adventure. But the heart tells us that nothing can stop our love. No age difference, no other woman, no other circumstances. What am I supposed to do?

Falling in love with your teacher is one thing, but starting a meeting with him is quite another. If I were Ani, I would break off all relations with Oleg Sergeyevich, at least until he really divorced. Otherwise, you can get into a much more serious story, from which it will be very difficult to get out.

I wonder what you would do if you were my friend.