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Mature flowering lady answered whether a woman after 60 needs a man
I recently told you about my lovely aunt Luba. She never misses an opportunity to say what she thinks. This time we talked about relationships in adulthood. I asked her what she thought of her relationship with a man after 50. Aunt Luba, of course, gave a very clear answer.
Today's edition. "Site" She shares her wonderful aunt’s thoughts on this.
Relationship with a man after 50 Aunt Luba divorced her husband. She lived with her husband for 25 years. They celebrated a silver wedding, arranged a magnificent holiday. Then he packed his bags and left. He said he couldn't live like this anymore. For the past 12 years, Luba has been living on her own. And she doesn't seem to regret anything. In the first year she was depressed, but after that it seemed to blossom.
My aunt never hesitates in expressions and says everything straight. When I asked if she would like to try dating men again, she answered unequivocally. My aunt said, Honey, I'll tell you that. A woman after 60 years does not need a man. I think so.
Then she argued. In her opinion, after 60 men are no longer looking for a life partner, but more a nurse who will look after him. They need someone who will brighten up loneliness, save from boredom and cook borsch. "Do I need it?" gushed my aunt. After 50, women only begin their second youth. They are often energetic and active. They want to devote time to themselves, to see the world, to have fun.
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At this age, more need not a man, but a faithful friend. A faithful companion with whom you can go on a trip or drink coffee at lunch. But an older man for such cases is not the best company. At least that's what Aunt Luba thinks. It seems to her that older men are more inclined to grumble. They are also incredibly difficult to move. Of course, we are not talking about everyone, but Aunt Lube was lucky for just such.
She tried to start a relationship several times, went on dates. But it quickly bore her. She is much more enjoyable to spend time with her longtime girlfriend Larisa. They go to yoga together. Every six months the ladies go somewhere together. Anyway, they don't get bored. They can enjoy life, not take on a boring life. In general, make up for everything that did not have time in his younger years.
My aunt noted that this is hardly relevant for everyone. There are people who simply cannot live alone. She doesn't really understand why she should take care of a man. But he doesn't judge anyone. Everyone has their own life and their own way of growing old.
At the end of the conversation, my aunt said, You know, honey. I think that 60 years is the age when you need to calm down, to give up excess and just live. No looking for a man, no fuss. It is better to give all the love to yourself, to devote yourself finally time. There must be harmony in life.”
We think that the words of Aunt Luba are very wise. It seems that this woman has found her way to spend her old age cheerfully and richly. It may even be the secret to a long life that everyone is looking for. We do not know, but we hope that everyone will be able to find their own harmony, as Aunt Luba did.
By the way, before we shared with you the thoughts of Aunt Lyuba about what a mature woman should not save. If you are interested in her thoughts, you can read her list.
What do you think of a relationship with a man after 50?
Today's edition. "Site" She shares her wonderful aunt’s thoughts on this.
Relationship with a man after 50 Aunt Luba divorced her husband. She lived with her husband for 25 years. They celebrated a silver wedding, arranged a magnificent holiday. Then he packed his bags and left. He said he couldn't live like this anymore. For the past 12 years, Luba has been living on her own. And she doesn't seem to regret anything. In the first year she was depressed, but after that it seemed to blossom.
My aunt never hesitates in expressions and says everything straight. When I asked if she would like to try dating men again, she answered unequivocally. My aunt said, Honey, I'll tell you that. A woman after 60 years does not need a man. I think so.
Then she argued. In her opinion, after 60 men are no longer looking for a life partner, but more a nurse who will look after him. They need someone who will brighten up loneliness, save from boredom and cook borsch. "Do I need it?" gushed my aunt. After 50, women only begin their second youth. They are often energetic and active. They want to devote time to themselves, to see the world, to have fun.
712590
At this age, more need not a man, but a faithful friend. A faithful companion with whom you can go on a trip or drink coffee at lunch. But an older man for such cases is not the best company. At least that's what Aunt Luba thinks. It seems to her that older men are more inclined to grumble. They are also incredibly difficult to move. Of course, we are not talking about everyone, but Aunt Lube was lucky for just such.
She tried to start a relationship several times, went on dates. But it quickly bore her. She is much more enjoyable to spend time with her longtime girlfriend Larisa. They go to yoga together. Every six months the ladies go somewhere together. Anyway, they don't get bored. They can enjoy life, not take on a boring life. In general, make up for everything that did not have time in his younger years.
My aunt noted that this is hardly relevant for everyone. There are people who simply cannot live alone. She doesn't really understand why she should take care of a man. But he doesn't judge anyone. Everyone has their own life and their own way of growing old.
At the end of the conversation, my aunt said, You know, honey. I think that 60 years is the age when you need to calm down, to give up excess and just live. No looking for a man, no fuss. It is better to give all the love to yourself, to devote yourself finally time. There must be harmony in life.”
We think that the words of Aunt Luba are very wise. It seems that this woman has found her way to spend her old age cheerfully and richly. It may even be the secret to a long life that everyone is looking for. We do not know, but we hope that everyone will be able to find their own harmony, as Aunt Luba did.
By the way, before we shared with you the thoughts of Aunt Lyuba about what a mature woman should not save. If you are interested in her thoughts, you can read her list.
What do you think of a relationship with a man after 50?
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