The groom is all over, waiting for me in another country, and I can not leave, the third day I do not sleep.

Perhaps one of the most terrible feelings we can feel now is a feeling of overwhelming anxiety, longing and invisible, but impending disaster. At this time I want to be with my family, in the circle of the closest people. And separation The last thing I want to do in such a difficult time.



But the borders are slowly closing, the curtain becomes more visible and the panic begins to move into its maximum phase. And what if the closest person can’t be there? Can't give her a hug, calm her down, and tell her she'll be okay tomorrow? And all around the same people looking for someone to blame for what happened.

My husband works abroad. My husband works abroad. More specifically, Scotland. He studied well, traveled a lot around the world and became an excellent specialist in the field of modern technologies. I love him with all my heart and miss him very much. But it happened that 2 months ago he went on a business trip. Nothing unusual, the customers had to show their project and start production.



We have been waiting for this moment for a very long time: not every day your idea impresses your partners from abroad, your husband was looking for a good bonus and promotion. After you know what happened, the borders closed. My husband is not allowed to come home, I stayed here and I was very scared. I miss him, I don't sleep like three days. Don’t believe me, food doesn’t go down my throat. I cry a few times a day.

We can call and communicate sometimes, but we realize that this is not the case. The husband had problems, he also began to mope and does not have time to fully provide the project with autonomous work. We have to constantly close new gaps. I understand that in such a situation it is absolutely impossible to think about the case.



In the meantime, I started having money problems. My husband took all the currency with him, only our wooden ones were left in my hands. And they run out very quickly. It is no longer possible to send money from another country. I'm not asking. You don’t want to go out, what do you spend money on? My family doesn’t understand me, they say, let him not come at all, since he stayed there at such a time. In short, no involvement.



Can you tell me who I can turn to? I want moral support and calm. Should I go to church or a psychologist? I've never been there or there. Do you think it'll help? Thank you, dear ones, for any answers. Now I want to think only about the good, but it does not always work.

What can I advise you to stay strong, dear. We all understand your problem, but unfortunately we cannot help you. Try to constantly bring your mobile phone: this will help you not to worry about a missed call from a loved one. Watch movies online while you can. Distract yourself.



Go shopping and get a friend. They are often a good help in moments of weakness. Try to understand some other questions of life. Maybe find a hobby. We're in "Site" There is a whole category devoted to recipes. You may be surprised, but a budget kitchen can be very diverse.

In addition, you can take care of your own housing in order. There are a lot of different tips on how to make an apartment more respectable in a short time and almost without tangible investments. This is useful and does not allow sadness to penetrate the heart to settle there for a long time.



We hope that soon everything will fall into place and your betrothed will come back. Or, on the contrary, you will be able to fly to him. We hope that soon this whole situation will end and we will be able to smile sincerely again. No pain in the back of the head. Good luck to all of us and let it be all right. Thank you for your address!

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