With my data, you could shine at beauty contests, and I'm alone at 40. Bashny.Net

The life of a woman after 40 years is just beginning! At least that’s what they say in all women’s forums. But what do experienced ladies really feel after stepping over the 40-year mark? Unfortunately, this is not always happiness and joy. In today’s article, we will try to find out what affects the attitude of a mature woman and her love for life.



I have never suffered from complexes about my appearance. I appreciated myself and understood that I was lucky with my face and figure. It doesn't help me in life. I'm 40 now and I'm single. In my youth I had to go through a serious illness, because of which I was at home for about 5 years, then went to hospitals.

I didn’t have a relationship when I was young. The school didn’t work out for the same reason. Somehow my father got me into a firm with a familiar paperwork manager. That's how I work to this day. By the age of 30, I had completely lost faith that I could find a normal man.



No, of course I had men. But it didn't go beyond one date. I saw they only wanted one thing from me. With my data, I could shine in beauty contests. I missed it. I was waiting for the prince on a white horse, but real life is not like a fairy tale.



My friends didn't get along either. Everyone I’ve ever been friends with has married and had children. We have different interests, we have nothing to talk about. I am tired of hearing their eternal complaints about husbands and children. The girls in the office are simple. You can only go to coffee with them.

Why is life like this? My life has become like Groundhog Day. I don't want to do anything at all. I look at my fellow students and bite my elbows: where did I turn the wrong way? I'm not getting married, I'm not having kids either. I don't need that! It feels like everything around you makes no sense.

Even though I still live with my mother, I feel so alone inside. My mother is trying to cheer me up, saying that I am still young and the life of a woman after 40 years is just beginning. But I don't believe it. I can see that there is no beginning of a new happy life for me. All my actions have become so automatic that I sometimes do not even think about what I do at work or at home.



Lately, my mom says I need to seek help from a specialist. And this is from a woman who has always been skeptical of psychologists. I also consider them charlatans. I didn’t pay attention to my mother’s suggestion. But I decided to write to you. Maybe someone has had problems like mine. What helped you get out of this hole?

Life Wisdom: What does this story teach us? There are people who are not happy in life. But they do not take any action to correct it. Just waiting for things to change one day. It is to this category of women belongs the heroine of today’s history.



She brags about her looks because it's essentially the only thing she has. But the reality is that a beautiful face does not give a person a ticket to a happy life. No wonder they say that we are the blacksmiths of our happiness.



This lady needs to stop complaining about the activities of psychologists and seriously think about a couple of sessions with a specialist. It's an unploughed field! I'm afraid that advice from the Internet will not help here. You can write in the comments what you think about this story. I'll wait!